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is it normal to feel jealous of other girls who are so much prettier than u , so they have loads of guys that are into them??? u feel like ur just nobody~

2006-12-07 17:23:01 · 23 answers · asked by [MiA] 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Yes, but remember even pretty girls have problems too. I'm sure you're a lot harder on yourself than other people too. Maybe someone is jealous of YOU for some reason...;)

Everyone eventually finds someone that they love and that loves them back. Quantity of male admirers means nothing. It's the quality that matters.

2006-12-07 17:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Yes, it's totally normal. However, most people realize that the "pretty" girls also have their faults. For example, one girl might not be the prettiest of the bunch, but her personality is amazing. While the other girl is pretty, she might be boring and mean. This doesn't mean that pretty girls can't have it all, it just means that nobody is perfect. Everyone has their faults, and I think guys have to accept that (and women do to! It's also vica verca.) In the end, it all comes down to compatibility between two people. Once guys get through the "I only want to be with a hot girl" stage, that's when serious relationships form (that's why they usually form AFTER high school.) I hope I'm of help! :)

2006-12-08 01:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by liv 2 · 0 0

Yup. It's pretty normal to feel that way. But honestly, pretty really is overrated - one can add lots of make-up and become pretty. And having loads of guys could be fun. But pretty alone just doesn't cut it - you have to be more. Let's see, out of a class of 100 people, maybe 20 are really good looking - so that leaves 80% of the people making up the rest of us - I think I like those odds better.

2006-12-08 01:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Isabel 7 · 0 0

Of course it's normal to be jealous of others! Just don't look at the other girls as prettier, okay? Try to find something that you really like about yourself. There is something. Don't deny it. And guys, don't worry about them. They'll come around. :)

2006-12-08 01:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes its normal , but you mustnt show that feeling , try to act normally , cuz im a guy and if i find a girl feeling jealous from other prettier girl i will ignore her but take care cuz some pretty girl try to hang out with less ones cuz they will get all the attention
tc and im sure you are pretty but have more self confidence cuz how we look is nt every thing .

2006-12-08 01:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think that almost everyone feels like that they aren't as popular, or pretty, or talented, or whatever as someone else sometimes and that we'll envy them, but this feeling shouldn't control your life. I think that when I am most uncertain about who I am, I feel as if I have to be better that everyone else (whether it's brains or beauty). You are special in some way, and if a guy is only going for looks, the relationship starts out as skin deep. I think it is better to be admired for who you are than for what you look like.

2006-12-08 01:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by rainfairy 2 · 0 0

thats normal. but should be helped- it really doesn't mater about prettiness because beauty on the outside only goes so far, it sounds corny, but its on the inside that counts. the prettiest girl in the world could feel like she was the ugliest thing, and even though guys would be attracted to her and want to get with her, not many guys would go further with a relationship with a girl with no self confidence.

2006-12-08 01:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by mandy 2 · 0 0

Depends on what you mean by normal. If you mean that other people are the same way, then yes. If you mean that it's ok to feel jealous, then no. There's a reason that jealousy is called "the green-eyed monster." So don't feel jealous; it's not ok.

2006-12-08 01:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by slobberknocker_usa 7 · 0 0

It's normal to feel some jealousy. Always remember this, if a really nice guy really likes you, and he don't make your heart race abit, then it was really nice being appreciated that way.
It's more important that you get the one YOU want, do you really care who those girls go out with after you have the guy You wanted ?
Let's be honest, don't the HOT guys get that kind of attention too? Ever did the same around a really HOT guy?
Don't let that kind of situation trigger you feeling like a nobody.
Hot girls, hot guys , hot cars, hot places, big bucks,,,,,,,, they always get attention. That's life!

2006-12-08 01:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by MindFul 2 · 0 0

It is called insecure and it is normal the way the media and society put unreasonable expectations on women. You better start liking the way you look now because you are all you got. Better stop thinking about how pretty others are and find your own beauty, inside and out.

2006-12-08 01:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0 0

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