I dated this guy for about 11 months. The relationship went very well and we helped and supported each other through tough times. We were crazy about each other and he always said my name, using his last name (as in he was going to marry me). He moved and we tried a long distance relationship. We started to argue daily and I decided it was best to break up with him. Three weeks later, he called my cell phone and I didn't answer. When I texted him to ask if he was ok, he said that it was a mistake that he called...which I doubt. (?)
Five months have passed, and I still find myself thinking about him daily. I sent him a text and wished him Happy Thanksgiving, but I didn't hear anything back. I believe he could have been my soulmate, but if he was, shouldn't he have returned my text? Is he over me?
2006-12-07 16:43:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time to move on. if he was your soul mate, you would still be with him. if soul mates exist, then those relationships will last forever. he may be over you, and if he is, brush it off and find something else to think about. you were ok before him, youll be ok after him.
2006-12-07 16:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...your situation sounds a bit like mine did a while back..I also met a guy and we got along great...he would even call me Mrs..and implied several times that he wanted to marry me...even asked me once...unfortunately somebody else came along and that person convinced him that he should marry her...I always felt he didn't get over me..I can't shake that feeling off...
but about you...since you broke up with him...then it might be that he did get over you....sorry to say...but maybe it wasn't the best move for you to do that...but then again...maybe it was...you will know...maybe not right away but you will know if it was better to let go of him....
you said you believe he could have been your soulmate...maybe he was...I too believe in soul mates...and this guy I knew for 2 years really did feel like my soulmate...sometimes I wonder if I didn't do enough to get him back...do you feel the same? about this guy? that maybe you should try harder to try to get him back?
well they say...if its meant for you...it will come back to you...so...don't lose hope....but do keep your options open...you never know who you'll meet next :-)
2006-12-07 18:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by msachtungbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I can appreciate your situation.
From my experience, there is absolutely no way to predict whether he is over you. But, you have to live your life like he IS over you, if that is what it's going to take for you to get over him.
The only way we should wait for someone in this situation, I feel, is if they were making it clear that they were not over you and were taking steps to shorten your wait. Otherwise, you're letting them waste your time.
In this case, if you have to make a guess and don't want to talk with him about it directly, which you may want to try a few more times, you've really got to assume that he is over you, if for no other reason than to move on yourself. Don't let a person who doesn't care enough to respond to you tie up your life.
2006-12-07 17:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Venzen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm... i wish u called him earlier, you could call him now, u havent got anything to lose, but there might be a chance you could gain from this. but good luck ( : ( i hope it turns out fine, otherwise remember you have nothing to lose. and try talking it out a bit, properly but nicely, prepare.) Good Luck ( :
2006-12-07 17:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he isnt over you. He feels that for some reason he cant have you it may bot even be your fault. it maybe he needs a sugar mama or someone to take care of him . he loves you dearly but he feels that you and he may not work out
2006-12-07 17:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by sophie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not over him by the sound of it i would say he has moved on remember it was you who ended the relationship it prob really hurt him and isn't going to give you the chance to do it again!
2006-12-07 20:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The clues are there read em and weep , then move on , good luck !
2006-12-07 18:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FRAID SO
ME FINKS HE HAS MOVED ON!
2006-12-07 17:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋