2006-12-07 16:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 25/F and I look at porn all the time without my BF.
Porn is "me time." It has nothing to do with my BF. I watched porn before him, and if we every break up, I'll watch it after him. I have a great sex life with him, but porn is seperate. I've explained that to him, and he accepts that.
If your BF uses porn to REPLACE sex though, then you've got some real troubles.
Even though I haven't given up porn when I'm in relationships, I still have an active sex life with my partner. It's not a replacement. If your BF is ignoring you, showing other addictive behavior, he might have a problem. If he won't talk about it with you but expects you to accept how he feels, that's pretty one-sided.
I have issues if my BF sees me looking at porn. It's not shame, it's just PRIVATE, that's all. Alway has been. Like I said, I keep it seperate because it's me-time. Maybe your BF feels the same way. Don't confront him, just talk calmly about it.
This may be something you're just going to have to live with, so long as it doesn't become addictive behavior.
2006-12-07 16:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by katya_annalotovich_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 00:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is a own decision that he made. I ensue to sense an identical way and for slightly different (even with the truth that non-non secular, if everybody wonders) motives, I make a aspect of heading off all porn as well. and that i'm a guy. so a thoughts as if it really is common, technically, it really isn't any longer. Statistically talking, maximum adult males watch porn, and so this guy (and that i) may be in a minority crew. yet i does no longer say there is a few thing odd or in any respect undesirable about it (the note odd has detrimental connotations that do not keep on with); it really is only astounding. so it extremely is the reality, as I see it. you may make of it what you'll.
2016-11-24 22:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he is doing it with out you then mental he cheating on you. Because mental he is enjoying a sexual thing without you it is fair because you are his partner. It really not health that he does not want you around.
2006-12-07 16:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by talanda w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just 2 days ago i answered to some1 who was aking tht his bf wants to watch porn wth her all the time, and she was asking tht she felt weird.
Now here, its the opposite, hmmmmmmmmm, why dont you chicks switch bf, tht would be a solution....
2006-12-07 16:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all EWWWW.......like seriously if my boyfriend was looking at porn I would break-up with him......and why in the heck would you want to watch it with him????
2006-12-07 16:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do nothing and let him continue to do what all men do. There is nothing to worry about. This is, believe it or not, typically normal.
2006-12-07 16:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him peace WOMAN...he isn't doing nothing wrong...at least he's not in the bars picking up on some chick...
2006-12-07 16:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just walk in on him wit a roll of paper towels n some lotion and get on wit some sexy time ya herd? holla
pz, gl tho
2006-12-07 16:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by cdub 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its normal he just feels that its weird for u to see w/ him b/c thats what guys due
basicly thats how guys learned
2006-12-07 16:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋