and now I feel bad about it.
My bf or ex bf that i've been getting back together with came over today and we were supposed to go out but he ate and then got really tired since he hasn't slept much this week. So we fell asleep around 8 even tho I wasn't tired. I woke up around 11:30 all bushy eyed and he was still tired and sleepy so we went back to sleep , but i was awake but in a talking mood at least. I can't watch tv or use my computer because i live in a studio and it would wake him up. So I woke up and asked him when i was going to be able to sleep over HIS place , just to start convo. (he doesn't let me go in his house because his roommate doesnt like me itsbeen over 2 month) and he said "when are you going to stop starting trouble?" and i said what do u mean by that? and he wouldn't explain. It;s been a long time now since he won't let me go to his house and he won't tellme what to fix so that his roommate and I get along. It pissed me off so I kicked him out at 12 at night
2006-12-07 16:38:18 · 4 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was extremely angry about that and I still followed him out to his car asking him to talk to me, but he said he had nothing to talk about. And I said "see, obviously things aren't working out between us. You have no communication" andhe just looked at me and said "obviously" and he got in his car and i still stood by his window asking him and i asked him if he was seriously going to leave because that was it and he said yes. that he had nothing to say. so he left. i'm so devastated now. i left him a message apologizing but that he also needed to understand i was trying to work things out and it angered me he didn't put the same effort into working things out by offering a solution.
2006-12-07 16:38:30 · update #1
Was I right? What should I do?
2006-12-07 16:40:35 · update #2
I THINK THAT BOTH OF YOU NEED SOME SPACE TO DEAL
WITH WHAT REALLY GOING ON. IT SOUND LIKE BOTH OF
YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT IN
THIS RELATIONSHIP, BECAUSE IT REALLY SOUND LIKE YOU
BOTH DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.
2006-12-07 16:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would move on, and he will see this and either apologize and ask you back, or let you go like he said he was doing.
Most likely you would be better off anyway, as he obviously has something to hide or that he doesn't want you to find out about his roommate.
2006-12-08 00:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by xj_99507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a blow up like this is simply a blow up. It doesn't spell the end of the world. Sounds like he was just pissed that you woke him up and was fussing with him. (whether you were right or wrong doesn't matter)
Give it a day... go with your instinct, but don't beg. You didn't do anything wrong. you're just reacting to his overreacting.
2006-12-08 00:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by websco137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you get rid of this loser for good.
2006-12-08 00:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋