guys help pls?? how do i know if he just doesnt want me or if he is trying to forget about me??

Question

ok there is this one guy which i totally love right, but the thing is that omg we cant say that we were going out cuz i guess we werent but the thing is that he saw this one girl while i was having a game and since then everything changed between us, the thing is that i love him and he said that supostuly he was sorry for wat he did and that he didnt wanted to hurt me but i told him that i didnt wanted to lose him n e ways so we decided to be friends but we used to be on the messenger like everyday and its been a week since i dont know anything about him and he hasnt call me or hasnt send me a message or anything and i dont know if he is doing it to forget about me or just bcuz he doesnt want me around him,bcuz my friend talked to him and he said that suppostuly he has no internet n thats like so not true cuz he logs into this one page where i can see he was there so he does has internet would u tell me wat u think please!!!!!!!!im desesperate=(

Answer 1

I'm not sure of the age group here, but in general, guys will ignore what they don't have to give attention to to keep. It sounds like he is in a position to ignore you, knowing that you're not going anywhere, so, if and when he decides not to ignore you anymore, you'll be there.

The only way to fix this problem is leave it alone. You need to be the thing in his life, if you want, that he feels he'll lose unless he gives the attention.

The fact that he's ignoring you doesn't mean that he doesn't like you, though it could. It doesn't mean he's trying to forget about you, though it could. The only way that you'll know one way of the other is to make yourself unavailable to him. This may take some time for him to notice that you're unavailable, but give it that time. Easier said than done, of course. But, hey, while you're unavailable to him, have fun. Make yourself available to other people so you can and him both can see that he's not even close to being the only one that is cool for you.

Answer 2

I'd say, back off a little bit and let him have some space. I mean how do you know if you REALLY love him?? what if while he's hangin out with this other girl that he met, you happen to bump into the guy that ur supposed to be with?? you never really know.... so let him have some space, go on with whatever it is that you have to do and maybe he, or you, will realize if you're supposed to be with each other or not.

Answer 3

girl get over it..you dont need to a guy's help to figure this one out..if he likes you he'll call if he doesnt that means he doesnt care..and i dont understand why you even told him you dont want to lose him..you left yourself open to putting distance between you too..he probably thinks you want to marry him or someting by the way you said that..guys dont like girls that cling on and it really looks like thats what your doin..they like their space so if i were you stay away and see what happens and if he doesnt call and im sorry to tell you but he wont then you really know that hes not in to you..