Me and a girl from school went to a party on Friday night. It looked like she had a good time, we talked a lot while we were there, etc. But ever since Monday, she hasn't said a word to me. She usually comes up and talks to me everyday, but now she kind of avoids me when i get near her to try to talk to her. Why is she doing this and how can i talk to her? (Nothing wierd happened friday night, we had a good time...... well, I know I did, and it looked like she did too).
2006-12-07 16:31:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, nothing wierd happened, we didn't even hold hands. And btw, we're 15.
2006-12-07 16:37:12 · update #1
Something's going on, obviously, in her mind. Maybe you're mistaken and she didn't have as good a time as you did. I think you need to make it a point to approach her when she's alone and ask her what's up.
2006-12-07 16:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's afraid of falling for you, maybe she considers you a good friend and after friday she started getting feelings foyou. Give her space, when she's ready to talk she will but when she does start to talk again, ask her wats up, even initiate a convo like end of the week or something just so she doesn't think ur pushing. Good Luck
2006-12-08 00:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you SURE you had a good time? Maybe she was waiting for you to make a move and you didn't? Maybe something you said/did, or DIDN'T say/do...
I would lay off a little bit - ignore her / try not to see her for a day or two, if possible. Maybe wait until after the weekend, and then have a good reason to chat next time. And make a move...
2006-12-08 00:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by gMrombowoz3ia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be from a lot of different reasons, but don't take it personally, and just move on. when a girl does this, she usually has a good reason, and it all has to do with her and what she wants for herself. ask if you did anything that upset her, or anything wrong, and then you just have to let it be, because you did all you could. if she still avoids you, and you really want to be -just friends- nothing else because she doesn't want that, then tell her that. tell her that you value her friendship. if it was a dating situation though...something happened in her life that made her not want to be in a realtionship with you right now. don't know buddy, sorry..but don't let it hurt you. it's just her figuring herself out.
2006-12-08 00:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by corinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, was alcohol involved? Alcohol can loosen anyone up and make them more social. However, if you're trying too hard and being too clingy that's a definate turn off. So give her some space and if she comes to you then go for it but if not then move on.
2006-12-08 00:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Flamin' Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..if you guys did anything. she may feel nervous about talking to you. i'd say call her or go up and talk to her first. I know with some of my exes, if I messed around with them before they were my boyfriend then I felt weird around them and didn't know what they wanted to do about it (like was it just a one time thing or did they want more). So i kinda avoided them. of course later, they said pretty much the same thing you just said...that they were wondering why I ignored them during that time.
2006-12-08 00:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something did happen at the party to her and shes not telling you or maybe something is going on at home .
you should try and talk to her friends maybe they can fill you in on why shes ignoring you
2006-12-08 00:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just bugging! Give her a week and then ask her, whats wrong! She should tell you, cause she'll think you care about her cause you noticed she was acting wierd!
2006-12-08 00:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by danielle d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry hon,
she is probably just busy.
try talking to her, asking her what the problem is.
you could of said something she didn't like.
or
don't get all paranoid if she were mad at you i think she would say something to you.
she might just have a lot on her mind right now.
if your worried about it , then approach her and ask
she will probably say its nothing
good luck it might just be in your head
2006-12-08 00:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by celestialangel43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok one thing with the one u should start is by asking urself have i ask her wats wrong?? then if u havent just ask her dont think about it just do it!!!! Probably she likes u or something n she might feel embarrassed or something well i hope this helps!!
2006-12-08 00:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jussiie Fresita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋