we've been dating for two months, i'm seeing him for a little while froday night and saturday night (and i see him every day at school) and hes upset that i can't spend all of sunday with him because i need to work on school work b/c i've been absent...
am i being unreasonable??
2006-12-07 16:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you need some personal space...It would drive nuts having someone around all the time, you need some me time...
2006-12-07 17:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl, you are not being unreasonable........let's see you are seeing him both Friday and Saturday not to mention you see him everyday at school and he's upset? No sounds more like he's a little possessive to me....a normal loving understanding, caring boyfriend would know you have responsibilities, even though (he may want to spend every waking hour with you) he would know that school and work are important and he would not try to make you feel guilty because you have to do what you have to do.....You are not being unreasonable! He is!
2006-12-08 00:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being unreasonable. He wants to spend more time with you. That's a good thing, right? Unfortunately, you are unavailable, so he will have to dream about you all day Sunday until he sees you on Monday at school. This too is a good thing. Of course he is upset. He wants to be with you. But he will get over it. It'll do him good to wait around for you, teach him the value of your company. I can't see the problem.
2006-12-08 00:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your schoolwork should come first but you do need to take a look at the relationship. Usually at this point you are mad to be with the guy and you do not sound sorry that you have a legit excuse to stay away.
2006-12-08 00:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly not! i went through something like that myself except it was kind of me that wanted to see my bf all the time. it got to the point where we were fighting all the time cuz he wanted to do the things he liked, and i wanted to do the things i liked. we got on each others nerves and it all blew up in one HUGE fight. bottom line, you need your space and he's going to need his too if you're going to be happy together. i've found that the sooner he and i could realize we could spend just as much time appart as together and still be happy the better things were going to be.
he might just be a little insecure in your relationship yet since its kinda new, and he might just want to be sure that you know he cares about you, except that he's smothering you at the same time. have you talked to him about it at all?
2006-12-08 00:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to get your school work done. He needs to understand that you can't spend every second with him, you have a life of your own and different priorities.
2006-12-08 00:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not being unreasonable. He is being clingy.
2006-12-08 00:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not....even thou you are dating it is still nice to have some time to yourself_
2006-12-08 00:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--he is being immature and probably insecure.
2006-12-08 00:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Stuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋