I have had conditions that cause me to faint .I'm 5'2 and 110 lbs which makes it occur more. It's embarrassing for me to whine and show how dizzy I'm feeling around people because I don't want to annoy my friends and I want to just be myself. On several occasions, my boyfriend Shane has been there to catch me when this happens and put me in my bed or on a sofa where he is always there when I wake up. This past week though, I was at a bar with my friends and I passed out again, only this time I woke up in Shane's friend's car, Sam with my skirt ripped and my top that tied in the back undone. My drunk best friend claimed she heard him say something about Shane saying (while drunk) that he has been so tempted to take advantage of him, but this was said before I passed out. He was very offended when I confrontend him about this later and claims it came undone and torn when I fell. Who should I believe?? What do you think really happened?
2006-12-07 16:18:30 · 17 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there r signs of sex. try to remember if you had any....by the way are you anemic? low blood can make you pass out. go to your doctor and get a red blood count..if this is your problem then you need to take iron medication..by the way sweety nobody's shirt unties its selve just by falling.
2006-12-07 16:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by melissa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your conditions have been diagnosed by doctors so you know how to avoid situations that cause the fainting at such a young age? The current condition sounds like you've been drinking a little too much. You'd have to have been in a long "faint" for your clothes to be so disheveled. If you were raped, you'd know it. I think you guys ought to lighten up on the drinking (ahem, and the car was just parked there, right? never moved) What really happened? Bad judgment.
2006-12-07 16:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you were raped or molested. And you may have not necessarily passed out on your own, you could have been drugged. And him being offended by you asking him something like that could be a sign that he was lying to you when he said that he didn't do it. A hit dog will always holler. Remember that. But sweetie you should really get checked out. Your clothes don't come undone or rip when you just simply pass out.
2006-12-07 17:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chandra S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello you got raped..and what you nned to do is take your *** to the hospital and get some tests taken before you end up pregnant and if there was no penetration involved and your sure then maybe you should go to the police cause molestation is still a crime..and next time if you know that your prone to pass out..DONT BE UNATTENDED BY PEOPLE YOU CANT TRUST OR BY DRUNK PEOPLE
2006-12-07 16:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by angelbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did it feel like you were in pain or anything did you feel like you had been violated i hate to say it but i think you were probably raped and if not that he probably did look at somethings while you were knocked out if thats what you want to call it but honestly you need to go to the doctor and tell them everything that you told us because they can test you and find out. im sorry that this happens to you if u ever need anyone to talk to im listening
2006-12-07 16:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were raped i really think u should get a pregnancy test soon !!!!!! and go confront him again and tell him that u will sew him u actually can!! because u have a medical condition and he took advantage of that.
2006-12-07 16:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make a report to the police. Tell them what was said and tell them the state in which you found yourself in when you woke up.
2006-12-07 16:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe someone played alittle touchy feely while you were so to speak unable to say no.....I would be very upset.....do you know if you were violated? If so I'd be pressing charges real fast....
2006-12-07 16:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Karen F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut and protect yourself from being in this situation in the future. go see a doc and check your iron levels. go with your gut, what do You think really happened!
2006-12-07 16:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by Russ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell. hopefully its when you fell. if your drinking+dizzy spells then it might be what they said. just ask around find out what really happened
2006-12-07 16:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by mack smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋