I got her flower on the first date...But should I get another one on the second date? I don't want it to be a routine thing... a thing that she expects me to do or get. I want it to be special. So what do you guys think?
Thanks in advance
2006-12-07 16:08:10 · 18 answers · asked by FalennixonX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But... I don't want to go empty handed either...
2006-12-07 16:14:32 · update #1
Thanks for your advice guys... I read them all and take them all into consideration.
2006-12-07 16:20:51 · update #2
i wouldn't.
2006-12-07 16:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely don't. She won't think the first one was as special. Play a little hard to get. Women like a bit of mystery. That was very romantic of you to bring her one on the first date but you are right it will seem routine to her and then you as well if you do it again right away. Better to wait and if you guys make it to a month then you could bring her two flowers to signify your time together.
2006-12-07 16:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got her 1 flower on the first date I think it would be really sweet to get her 2 on the second date. This way it has meaning and you might write a sweet little note in it like:
It is amazing that these flowers are nothing next to your beauty.
or something like that. She will be flaterd and charmed.
2006-12-07 16:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by I wanna dance naked in the rain! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing on the second date. Wait until your 4th or 5th if you make it that far "no pun intended" and buy her a small bouquet of flowers. Space out your gifts.
Just one real important thing. If you guys do make a go of this and its a year or two or twenty years, still remember to give her flowers. To often men will shower woman with flowers, gifts and cards in the beginning and a little time goes by and then NOTHING! Always treat her like it's your first date...............Good luck and have fun..................HC
2006-12-07 16:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone loves to get flowers, but I think that you are right, they are more special when they are not a routine thing. I would suggest not bringing a flower on the second date, you can surprise her with a bouquet later and she will appreciate it more.
2006-12-07 16:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by vonbankrachel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you already got her flowers then don't do the same thing again. Really I don't think you need to get her anything. You're taking her out, right? So, aren't you already paying? That should be good enough.
If you want to do thoughtful things for her on the second date, then open her car door for her, pull out her chair for her at the table, etc.
2006-12-07 16:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by it's me! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! Then she'll get used to it and when you dont bring flowers anymore, it starts. you dont care about me anymore, you're not sweet, blah blah blah. but if you give it to her once in a while she'll be happy you did. Matter of fact dont even buy her anything, and dont take her anywhere where you have to spend money for 2 reasons 1. you dont want to be like everybody else. and 2. cuz then she'll put you in the long term relationship group and you dont want that cuz then she'll make you wait. Make her want you. be cocky, and spontanious. ask her when shes gona give you a flower
2006-12-07 16:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by BRN305 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A single flower seems probability-loose notably if youre confident this time its a date yet I wouldnt necassarily %.. a rose because of the fact's usually seen extra beneficial a romance flower. you will possibly be able to prefer to get her her in demand undertaking like if she likes a candy or some thing you will possibly be able to prefer to get her that shows concept without necassarily pushing romance then. you will possibly be able to prefer to truly tell her you disregarded her & have been thinking approximately her via way of actuality the suitable time you hungout. Its a sprint extra beneficial own then a card or flower in spite of each thing person adult men arent usually open like that throughout spite of if its some thing consumer-friendly like admitting thinking of a woman we like. we would desire to stand it its usually particularly obtrusive on an identical time as we like a woman.....
2016-12-13 04:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i think its' not too late for me to answer but well if i was her and i was on my second date then i would prefer a guy who can bring of the following fromt he list below
flower + chocolater (but u allready gave her flowers so... forget this)
chocolater + a small teddy bear
a friendship ring or promiseing ring not to expensive (i completely understand the money value)
a hallmark card
(if u dot' find any thing just go to hallmark store and get somehting that suits her, depends on what she likes if she like cute stuffs then go to hall mark and get any things)
gud luck
2006-12-07 16:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Khu$hboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... you don't have to take her flowers every time... Do like my son does his girlfriend... He does something special for her on their monthly aniversaries... If you do it all the time your girlfriend will get to where she will not appreciate it...
Find out from one of her friends what she really likes to do then do that special thing for her or with her...
2006-12-07 16:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't repeat yourself. Always mix it up. Never fall into a routine or she will think you're nice but boring.
Instead, hold off on the presents for a while. Make her think that YOU are her present.
2006-12-07 16:10:57 · answer #11 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋