My ex just showed up with her new friend in the car... she comes in and starts checking to see if I have any girls in the house... what kind of stuff is that. Now face to face she tells me that her and him are just friends and are not intimate at all.... I dont know what to believe... she is acting like a jealous girlfriend.... even though we arent together... but yet she is kicking it with some guy.... please somebody explain
2006-12-07 16:04:57 · 19 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and she has text messaged me like... 6 times today and called me like 2 times... she was mad because i would not answer. And because i changed my phone number on her... she was calling my old phone. Saying that she wanted to hear my voice and doesnt want me changing my number cause otherwise how would she talk ot me
2006-12-07 16:15:06 · update #1
I understand, girls are stupid as **** sometimes...seriously, I know it seems as if she doesn't wanna be with you and she's trying to make you jealous by showin up with some other guy, but then she acts like she still has control over who you kick it with. Its a ridiculous head game...she is trying to make you think that maybe you lost something really good because obviously other guys want her, and she's trying to make you think she still has some power by acting all crazy posessive...and she may think that she still does have power because she did before, like you shouldn't move on and find other girls because deep down she still wants to be with you and you're obviously on her mind. Basiclly, if you are done with her and the relationship cut it off @ the source. Don't encourage her behavior by allowing her to do it, tell her you two are over and she has no control like that anymore...if you want her back, she may come back or she may not...she may just be doing it to make herself feel better...like she can get other guys but you can't get other girls, like she has the upperhand in some twisted *** mind game. Either way, good luck and I hope it goes ok
2006-12-07 16:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by TheHottestChristinaYouKnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's looking for someone to be jealous about, she's not over you, checking to see if you've got girls in the house. That's why also she's trying to make you jealous, to make you see how desirable she is to other men, make you see her differently and want her back. She can't live with you and she can't live without you, she hasn't moved on with her life yet. That's not your responsibility. Your's is to get on with your's. Did I read into this right: you have the house, she has the car? If you are really over her, change the locks and don't let her in the door. Those advice columnists used to say that nobody can make you a doormat unless you let them.
2006-12-08 00:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she misses you and wants you back and wants you to know she is not a loser and you should go after her and tell her it was all a mistake and you want her back too. Then you should buy her a big diamond something..tell her to dump the guy and you have always loved her and she is the best thing that ever happened to you...but if you are not interested in her just ignore her and go find another girlfriend.
2006-12-08 00:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are evil. I am one so I should know. If she can keep you from moving on and pining away for her then she wins. If she brings a guy around and you have no other women around the of course she is gonna say they are just friends. I bet if you had another girl there she would have said he was her new man.
2006-12-08 00:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by freakyallweeky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes trying to make you jealous. then when you show interest in why shes acting this way, she is letting you know she isnt 'with' that guy, just in case you might want to get back together. but she cant show it. she needs to act around it so you dont know shes still interested.
2006-12-08 00:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably trying to make you jealous, and that is why she came over when she had her new "friend" with her.
p.s. Stay away from girls who play games like this. Consider yourself lucky that your relationship is over.
2006-12-08 00:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by devil's advocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to get you jealous....but I am not sure about the other guy...do you really think they are not doing anything?_
2006-12-08 00:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are insane. She is probably jealous and trying to make you jealous. If you feel that it is inappropriate, tell her and ask her to not contact you.
2006-12-08 00:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by strikerbbb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to make you jealous
2006-12-08 00:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to make you jealous.
2006-12-08 00:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋