2006-12-07 15:34:26 · 30 answers · asked by rahul p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband is 10yrs older than me, and my last boyfriend was 13 yrs older. Age anit nuttin but a # just like color!
2006-12-07 15:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nine years smaller?
Well if you're young enough that it makes being her girlfriend illegal in the US (or even if you're in a country where it is legal) the answer is obviously no (those laws are there to protect younger people from letting people encourage them to make decisions they can't decide well for themselves b/c they're likely not old enough to understand the impact of their decisions...so legally or emotionally (even if there is no law) you'll most like end up being miserable and/or broken-up somewhere down the road).
On the other hand, say she's 18 and you are 27. If she can talk to you intelligently about what she plans to do with her life and how you fit in, and is NOT doing it for some immature reasons such asimpressing her friends, getting money, or having a baby to "make her feel more loved", then yes I'd say go for it. If you are 27 and live a lifestyle more like someone 19 then someone 27 also, you may well have more in common with her.
Back when I was 25 within the year I dated someone 18 and it was great: I finally had someone who could keep on my morning runs and have water-gun fights with after work yet could also talk with like an adult about the future: it just helped me by leaps and bounds to get outside my something overly serious self and made me a happier and better person to everyone else I knew. She moved away for college and her parents were weirded out by it and forced a split (simply because of the age difference) but, otherwise, she treated me like a king and vice-versa.
Some women (like men) lose sight of admiration and sense of humor in the world as they get older. They lose sides of life like being outdoorsy and fit, having lives outside of work, making fun of themselves & being quirky just to escape the traumas of life...many things that are actually, in many ways, more mature (not to mention fun) then their older counterparts. And if you indeed value those kinds of things and can not find them in women your own age (or women your own age who don't think they are too good to date you) then I say yes go for it.
2006-12-07 15:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by M S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is right when you'll do anything thats best for your love. If you think and beleive that if you love that girl it would give her a better klife, then I say go for it.
But if you know but just want to deny that loving her, would just take away whats most important in her life like family and her career or studies, then you have to think twice.
Loving someone for unselfish reasons is hard but there whats call love sacrifice.
No matter what the age, what the reason as long as you know she'll be happy, then go for it and keep loving her.
2006-12-07 15:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live life without any regrets man! IF you dont do anything about this situation now you will spend the rest of your life wondering what if? and believe me you dont want to spend your life wondering..this could create an problem in any relationship you have in the future. You will always compare your partner to your past love, because you never got to experience a relationship with them. What is the worst that could happen, her parents reject you, your parents reject you. But dont give up wihtout a fight, and even if you fought hard and still parents dont accept it than you knew you tried, and have no regret. Just accept what happens and try to move on hard as it sounds! You will find love in your life , true love, if this girl is your true love, you will find a way 2be together, and no one can stop you, it will just happen, because its suppose to!
2016-05-23 05:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your english skills you are about 10 or 11.
So that girl is 1 or 2?
Its wrong.
2006-12-07 15:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean younger? It depends...how old are the two of you? Nine years in your 40s isn't much...9 yrs in your 20s (or less) is a lot, and may be illegal.
2006-12-07 15:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is according how old you are and how old she is... If you are a man and she is a minor child (under the age of 18) then that would be wrong.. If you are both over the age of 18 then your both adults and if you both like each other then go for it...
2006-12-07 15:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Thats the exact age difference between me and my husband and we are happily married(touchwood).. So if the girl is above 18yrs of age than i don't see any problem. But in case she is too young than i suggest you wait for her to come of age before asking her out. This way she will be matured enough to go out with you.
Good Luck & God Bless.... happy dating
2006-12-07 17:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all - year and smaller
than you must be nine years older and larger or what?
you should be telling us if it is right
than again --- if you are 10 years old
than the girl is only 1
if you are 50 , than she is 41 years
how can we tell?
2006-12-07 15:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she is over 20.
2006-12-07 15:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋