I want to tell her I like her but how?

Question

ok i like this girl but we dont talk much and i want to tell her i like her but i am afraid of her saying no what should i do?

Answer 1

how cute!! Young love!! Unfortunately you will be turned down a few times during your lifetime, But think, do you really want to spend the rest of your life, not doing things for fear of failure?? Maybe just start chatting to her a bit more beforew you tell her how much you like her. Once you get to know her the words will come out naturally when ur ready!! Go for it! Be confident, and get to know her a bit first. Best of luck!!

Answer 2

We girls are suckers for gradual moves. As far as I am concerned we invented gameplaying so you fellas should have some moves of your own.

First check things out with eye contact. Make eye contact every now and then (at least once a day). DO NOT get so wrapped up in your emotions that you convince yourself that she is interested because that could hurt you more than her. See what happenes when you look at her...does she look up and back at you? I tend to wear dark sunglasses for this phase so that my eyes can wander to see if somebody is checking me out when they think I don't notice.
If you feel that the signals look good, make subtle things happen. Touch her shoulder once in awhile, talk to her. If she seems chatty in response, or even nervous and blushy it may be a good thing. Keep that up for a while. This lets her know that you wish to be around her. A fantastic indicator is if she begins to approach you more often. You cant just tells girls you like them up front because we FREAK OUT, especially if conversation is less frequent to begin with. Once you have gotten comfortable with chatting with her, get her a small gift. I personally love stupid stuff, a goofy beanie baby, tacky keychain, whatever, as long as it reminds you of her and she can make that connection. If she seems pleased with it, she may even reciprocate. its very common for guys and girls to mirror each other (do what the other does) if there is real interest. If the small gift idea works out, and seems pleasing to her, quietly, politely ASK HER OUT. Dont get hung up on what to do. A classic date involves interaction. Unless its a comedy flick I hate movie dates. (On the other hand if my crush asked me Id go in a heartbeat) If you are both shy though movie dates are perfect if you get a coffee or a snack after. Please remember nothing is guarunteed. If you are lucky enough to take her out please remember she is a person too, be completely respectful of her. (im sure you know this but Ive found that many guys DO NOT) Good luck I hope all goes well.

Answer 3

O.K well for starters take her out somewhere where it is just the two of you. And just tell her how you feel. To loved and to have lost is better than to not have loved at all. Right? Whats the worst thing that will happen she will say that she dosen't feel the same way and you will get your heart broken. But you know time heals all wounds. And if you don't tell her. you might find out later in life that she liked you as well...then where would you be..you'd be sitting alone saying "if i would have just told her" So just tell her. It really couldn't hurt to bad! Good luck on this and God bless!

Answer 4

You should go up to her and ask her "how would you respond or react if some guy, and kind of describe you, if you are cute say some cute guy, came up to you and told you that he likes you and he has been liking you for a long time but he was afraid he was going to get rejected. And just go from there. If she says she has a boyfriend at least you tried, if she says she will give that boy a chance you go on to ask her what if that boy was you.

Best of Luck!

Answer 5

You have to just step up and say it. Rejection sucks but if she's cool, she'll be flattered and keep you in mind if she ever wants to date. Girls love to feel wanted but you can't come off as needy.

My best advice if you tell her and she says no, act like it's no big deal and move on. Girls love a man with confidence by stepping up you show it.

If she says no, then just say, ok, that's cool see ya around. Never act like it hurts you. NEVER, it shows weakness and no girl is attracted to that.

Ever see an ugly guy dating a hot girl? Yeap, he's got confidence! (or money J/K)

Answer 6

I would take things kinda slow right now and just start talking to her alot and then if she seems interested then just go for it. she might like you to but u will never know unless u give it a shot. maybe you should try to be her friend first and then tell her it may be easier. and u never know she may just grow to like u once she knows u like her. good luck!

Answer 7

well if you don't talk much how do you know you like her? start by spending more time with her(group settings I'm not saying you should ask her out) then you'll know her better and if your still interested then just come out and ask, it may be hard but its the best way.

Answer 8

Just tell her. The worst that could happen is that she would say no... which would be the same if you never asked her. It's better to know you tried.

Answer 9

The best way to go about this is through an intermediary. Ask one of her friends to feel her out about meeting up with you or have one of your friends ask one of her friends. Trust me - the rejection is way easier to take second hand!

Answer 10

Well the first thing I would do is start talkin to her more, have more to do with her and once you have a relationship you wont be so unsure of what to say it will come naturally!