Hypothetical situation: One of your close guy friends has been in a crappy mood for the past few days. He starts to be mean towards you, your friends, and his friends. The next day You don't talk until lunch and when you do talk to him, you tell him to leave two friends he was already talking to because you want some private time with them. Later during class you have a project together. The guy asks what style you want the project to be and you say i dont know, then he says i dont know. You ask him why he is so stubborn, he tries to respond but he stops and says just forget it. You say that this is what you mean by stubborn,. then you dont talk the rest of the period. How would you wnat the guy to say sorry and on a side note, were both 14.
2006-12-07 15:28:29 · 23 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just drop it. Don't even bring it up anymore and act like nothing ever happened. Maybe ask him if something is bothering him cuz he's been acting funny the last few days. Not just to you, but your other friends too. Maybe something is wrong w/him. Don't expect an apology though. He really didn't do anything wrong.
2006-12-07 15:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brooke's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if i gave the answer to this question in an hour long paragraph that seemed to contain no answer, point, or meaning. then my friend asked me a question in the middle of it and I got distracted from writing my answer so I didn't get to it and besides it was just a big run on sentence anyways even though i'm ten years older than you and know how to write, but thats okay you're still learning little buddy. i would just say, hey, i'm sorry. i was being a bloody wanker. forgive me? and on a side note, its all good. lol, really.
2006-12-07 15:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay,
First thing in the day when you see her at school or wherever, Just take her hand and pull her aside and then just flat out tell her "Hey, I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry about the way I've been acting the past few days. I can't really explain why I've been like this because I don't know myself. But, the point is, I never meant to hurt your feelings or anyone elses".
And, depending on the way you feel about this girl, immediatly follow up with "I really care about you". OR "I love you". OR even "I've been a Royal Jerk...Forgive me???"
2006-12-07 15:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mystique6583 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess saying sorry is just about sincerity. just tell her that you are really sorry and tell her the reason why.
well, just explain everything to her. besides, if she really does care,
she'd forgive you. i've been through that. im 15 now and if i'm the
girl, a sorry would be enough. just show her that you are really
sincere.
if this doesn't work, she maybe needs some time to think and be
alone. just show her your sincerity and tell her that you'll not
commit the same mistake again.
say sorry at the right time and the right place. make sure she's
ready to talk to you at that very moment.
by the way, this is just a suggestion. if i was the girl, i would want
this kind of sorry.
Good Luck!
2006-12-07 15:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by samantha37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are moody creatures; I have a 14 year old son, and he's always moody about something. I call it "growing pains" It's the in between age from Boys to Men kinda thing... It could be girls, it could be peer pressure, it could be wanting those new gizmo's and gadgets, his parents could be divorcing, personal issues at the home front, bad grades, it could be anything! He doesn't owe you an apologize, you owe him some time to sought out his feelings. Let him know you're there form him in case he wants to "talk"
Believe me, trying to get my son to "talk" is like pulling teeth...(he'll say, I don't know, I'm straight, It's cool, hunches his shoulders up & down, etc...) Drives me Nuts! He seems to "talk" when I let it go and not bug him about whatever "it" is...
Good Luck!
2006-12-07 15:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say the truth. u were having a bad day and that girl had gotten sucked into it, too. just go up to her, say ur sorry for what you said, then tell her that u were just having a bad day. then give her a hug to show that u really mean it. a guy did that because he called me a crack-head asian and i understood that he really cared. we are really good friends now, so i would give it a try. but every girl is different. she might not act the same way.
2006-12-07 15:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cutieful &. {♥} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone say their sorry. If you want to make a mends you need to initiate an apology yourself or, if you feel you are owed one, then just initiate a conversation. Try to talk about what happened. I don't think you did anything to make your friend angry. I think he was probably having a bad day and you just happened to be there at the wrong time.
2006-12-07 15:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well souunds like you to seem to get along every once in a while, well the best way apologe is to apologize first, and if they don`t say sorry then their probebly are your real friends i was not much of help but i hope things work out sorry!
2006-12-07 15:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
acknowledge how he acted towards you and to apologize for his behavior.
We all get moody for some reason or another, don't take it so personally. You might want to ask him what's going on.
He might be looking for a friend to be there for him. Be the bigger person and don't snap back when someone snaps at you, you never know what they are dealing with on the inside.
2006-12-07 15:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by ajallstarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'll take your word for it...this "hypothetical" situation...anyway, all you have to do and approach her and simply say your are sorry. Chances are, she will forgive you. If she doesn't, then she isn't worth giving an apology.
2006-12-07 15:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋