How long does it hurt the first time and does it hurt the second time, third, etc...?
2006-12-07 15:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by lovelyladypoet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, sex should not hurt, it should be an enjoyable experience. the first time may feel uncomfortable at first as it is new, but this should not be lasting or extremely painful ... if it is stop right away. If you try again and it is still painful, slow down, relax and take your time. Make sure that this is something you really want to do and are ready for it. If you are very tense, it will be uncomfortable. Also, lots of foreplay and lubrication can help ease the transition. Consider different positions (i.e. female on top - my apologies if I am incorrectly assuming we are talking heterosexual intercourse here - can allow the female to control how deep the penetration is and how fast). If it after all this it continues to be painful, see your doctor to make sure you don't have any medical conditions that may be contributing to discomfort during sex.
And remember, the size of a guys penis should not matter your vagina is equipped to deliver a newborn baby (another subject all together!) and it is only the first 1/3 of the vagina that has nerve endings. G spots and clitoral stimulation are generally acheived with oral/manual stimulation (although everyone is different and it is possible with intercourse as well).
2006-12-07 15:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl, some girls have already broken their Hymen with tampons or something as silly as riding a bike wrong. But if this is intact for you it then depends on how thick your hymen is, every girls is differant. Some girls dont even bleed its so thin, and some look like they just had the worst period of their life. It will hurt the first time, and it'll gradually decrease. 2 years later and it still SOMETIMES hurts, but not badly its just enough to be like woo prick.. continue on. If your in a good relationship and he treats you right, it'll be worth it.
Edit: Ask him to go slowly and understand the first few arent just going wild. if hes a virgin he may not last long himself. You should be in charge of it.
2006-12-07 15:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by notsoluckycharm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although every female is different, my first time hurt, Then I went numb and it took a while before I finally got the feeling back. Probably by the 5th or 6th time is when I finally started feeling something. It was the 8th or 9th time when it started feeling good.
2006-12-07 15:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts the first time for a while...but it may not hurt at all. it depends on the person. the second time it'll be uncomfortable and the third time is a charm.
2006-12-07 15:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's different for each girl. For me it only hurt for a minute or so, and it didn't hurt after the first time.
2006-12-07 15:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by vonbankrachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like some one else said it depends on the person if hes big expect it to deff hurt..i was with a guy for 2 years and still till the last time it hurt me b.c we didnt do it that often but once you get going it wont hurt that bad
2006-12-07 15:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Princessbrj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, for me, it hurt the first time until he was all the way in and then it didn't hurt after that... After your first time, it might be a little uncomfortable when he first goes in, but that goes away really fast :)
2006-12-07 15:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl is different based on makek up. for me it hurt the whole time and it hurt for a week and half afterwards and then it hurt until the 4th time
2006-12-07 15:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person ur havin sex w/. How comfortable do u feel w/em, r they shovin it in, and breakin u bones. As long as u go slow u'll be alright~
2006-12-07 15:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time will hurt.
The second time will be better. And after that is will be just
as better,
Then you will want it all the time and before you know it.
The pain will be all gone.
2006-12-07 15:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by tired l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋