look a while bakc i posted up a question about this girl that i was all caught up for n how she was leaving me...because she had a boyfriend or w/e....ne how....we hadnt talked for like 2-3 weeks n i wasnt planning on ever calling her...EVER....because thats what she said that it was the last time we ever talked...so all of a sudden i get three messages with her playing all of "our" songs...lmao...she said she couldnt stand it ne more...so i called her back n we talked for about 10 mins n i asked her how things were between her n her bf...she said good....so why is she callin me back??? i was thinkin bout tellin her that i cant talk to her ne more...at least until she done wit her man...but not sure if i should...what do u guys think i should do? does it mean that she changed her mind and really cant be w/o me?
2006-12-07 15:21:52 · 13 answers · asked by lovin_mi_fresa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I think it's time you moved on.
If things are "good" between her and her boyfriend, and she's still calling, she is stringing you along. Maybe she wants to keep you as a back-up, just in case things go bad, or maybe she's feeling guilty about the way she treated you, or maybe she doesn't know what she wants.
But no matter what, you should get on with your life, and tell her to do the same. If and when she breaks up with her current guy, then she can call again. If I were you, I wouldn't let her screw with my emotions and my head like that.
2006-12-07 15:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's making sure that you're still available just in case things don't work out with her boyfriend, key words "just in case". Don't be that guy. Move on and find some other girls. If by chance she becomes single and you're single then perhaps you can try but don't hold up your happiness waiting for a girl.
2006-12-07 23:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just misses talking to you, don't let her come in and out of your life unless your okay with that. She probably confused as to who she really wants to be with, and if I was you I would not wait around until she figures it out. I know its easier said then don't but the best thing to do is to move on because she obviously has
2006-12-07 23:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she isn't happy with him...and probably already broke up...but she won't tell you that....she'll probably try to win back your affection...and then tell you she's leaving him for you...to make it seem like she chose you over him..when in reality she didn't... don't talk to her...you guys started off on the wrong foot.... the relationship is probably doomed.. (sorry).. besides if she cheated on him..why wouldn't she cheat on you?.... I'm sure you can find somebody who's motives you wouldn't have to question..
Good luck..on whatever you decide!
2006-12-07 23:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by law-inspired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i suggest you tell her exactly what you said. You dont want to talk to her until she is threw with her man. Give her another chance though if she is willing to break it off with her boyfriend to be with you. She wants you to be jealous of her and her boyfriend being together.
2006-12-07 23:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs attention.
D*mn it. Women are selfish. We don't want to believe that any man wants anyone but us.
Do NOT continue to talk to her. If she keeps calling you...do NOT pick up. She wants you to pine for her.
She is with someone else. If she wants to be with you, she needs to be free and clear of all obligations.
2006-12-07 23:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by majicatus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it clear to her that if she's very happy w her bf, you'd prefer her to leave you alone, and that if she really want you back, then she should settle n be over with her bf. if she doesn't get what you mean, then she must either be a jerk or a bit**?
2006-12-07 23:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be lead-on by a fickled piece of @$$, what! is she having a fight w the bf (web ebonics) after dumping u, com on dude grow a pair and open your eyes don't b a sucker!
2006-12-07 23:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her BF probably wasn't paying attention to her that very second and she got bored.She's playing games with you...RUN!
2006-12-07 23:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Basquephantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't make yourself available to her while she has a boyfriend- also she will know that she can have you in & out of her life whenever she feels like it
2006-12-07 23:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋