I have a crush on my best friend and im not sure if i should ask her out or just stay good friend. I guess the question is:
if you ask a girl out and they reject you are you and her still avle to be best friends or will the friendship be ruined?
2006-12-07 15:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by k_potassium_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you ask and she rejects you can still be best friends. It'll be awkward at first, but things will go back to normal.
2006-12-07 15:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by ZippityDooDa! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you want to risk the friendship. More than likely, if you date and it does not work out, you won't stay friends (been there, done that). However, if you feel you both would be better off lovers, perhaps you should take the plunge. But make sure you ask yourself what you are feeling is more than a friendship. Sometimes I think we confuse loving someone as a friend with lusting over someone. But then again, some of the best relationships start off as friendships. However, asking her out on a date can also be a true test for your friendship. If it doesn't work out and you do stay friends, you really do have a pal for life. Perhaps you should ask her out, but try asking in a cautious way, such as "Want to try to go on a date. I feel there could be something more here, so lets give it a try. If it doesn't work out, lets try our best to laugh it off and stay friends."
Good luck
2006-12-07 23:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you ask her. Since you're nervous casually might be the better way. Also if she rejects you that'll let her know that you care about her and still want the friendship to remain even if you cannot have a romantic relationship with her.
2006-12-07 23:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to be scared. Just ask her and if she says yes then BINGO. If not then i am sure that u will stay friends. But if not then i am sorry
2006-12-07 23:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by mexico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friendship is not totally screwed, you may not speak to her for a little while though.
2006-12-07 23:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be friends just tell her how you feel i have a guy friend who likes me and if he were to ask me i would say yes
2006-12-07 23:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by christian-wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you ask her out.
2006-12-07 23:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋