here's my problem...
i met this girl about 4 month ago and we've been really good friends and ever since i met her i've been having feeling towards her...then about last month she told me she likes my friend and i felt so depressed and told her i liked her. well she told me we can only be friends and nothing more... now her and my friend are together and i cant stop thinking abt her i know i should forget but i just cant. me and her is still very close and friends and she even told me some stuff about how i can forget abt her...(she also told me that she had some feeling towards me but it was not as much as the feelings she had towards my friend)
my friend she's together with right now they dont know each other very well and a few of my friends told me that i should wait till they break up...
2006-12-07 15:13:46 · 8 answers · asked by f22a6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thesedays whenever i see or even think about them being together i just feel my heart sinking down... i've tried to avoid her at school but that just made things awkward. now when i drive home i chose a new route so that i wouldn't see them walking together, i know i should get over this but it's really hard...
people have also been telling me that my friend is jealous because she sometimes likes to spend time with me and we talk on the phone alot...
2006-12-07 16:27:14 · update #1
This is hard...
She told you that because she didn't want to hurt your feelings.
She respects you as a friend.
If she and this guy break up, she will still only need you as a friend.
People are strange. There is no predicting who will or won't click. She doesn't feel it, now. Stop pining and find someone else.
And don't push for anything. Remain a friend and, if things happen, they will happen.
Don't waste one more minute on a girl who cannot be with you now.
2006-12-07 15:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by majicatus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make no one love you but you can wait. If you really love her than wait. Don't get jealous about her relationship with your friend. I wonder why your still calling him a friend. If he knew you liked her he just would of left it alone if he was a true friend.
2006-12-07 15:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by momo13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, just wait but don't break them up or anything. cause the guy i liked was with his girlfriend for a year and a half and they finally broke up, i never thought i would happen, so don't worry, you don't have to do anything to get over her. and since you really like her, just stay by her side being her close friend. but don't do anything that'll ruin their relationship. good luck! =D
2006-12-07 15:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wait her , maybe waste time , go and find another u are a man can get more than her , and if u wait her alredy left food , go and get fresh air
2006-12-07 15:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they ARE gonna break up sooner or later. That's like, GUARANTEED. There's no reason to get depressed.
2006-12-07 15:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. So what I would do is always be there for her as a friend, and who knows maybe somday things might change.
2006-12-07 15:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
someone told me that..if you love someone we want our beloved fell happy and blissful...so...although you are not the person who are with her...you must realise that she happy with your friend..think it
2006-12-07 15:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by naqibe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon you should steer clear ......
2006-12-07 15:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋