Say if someone broke up with you beacuse they were afriad of you finding someone new but didnt really tell you that.
how would deal with that, even after you thought this person was perfect for you?
2006-12-07 15:06:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends upon how I found out, if the person that broke up with me came clean about it, I would be more accepting and willing to forgive them. Its really a self defeating reason to leave someone, I mean leaving you because they think your gonna find someone new just opens the door that may have been closed to someone new. I would be understanding because the real reason for the break up was the other person's fear, for some love can be very scary. Its when we let those fears take over that we fail to see what a beautiful thing love can be. In my mind it doesn't make this person any less perfect for you they just allowed their fears to get the best of them. Forgive and move forward in whatever relationship you two have and see what happens. Good luck!
-NmD!
2006-12-07 16:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if they broke up with me they wouldn't be worth my time in the first place. You should thank him for breaking up with you, he's doing you a favor even if you spent a bunch of time in the relationship. If I thought he was perfect for me, I'd probably still think about him, but there are bigger and better fish out there in the sea! You'll find someone else! Good luck! ;-)
In a few months I bet he will be begging to come back to you.
2006-12-07 23:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would they break up wif u on the first place?why dont u talk to ur other half..u cant just leave a person if u really like them..
2006-12-07 23:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by jen R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to understand why you thought someone like this was perfect for you.
2006-12-07 23:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try my very best to live with what ever the final decision is...
2006-12-07 23:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 words 4 u......MOVE ON!!!!
2006-12-07 23:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋