Theres this guy and I really like him but he keeps changing his mind about wether he wants to go out with me or not. He keeps telling me I'm not mature enough, and he keeps asking me to change how I am for him. I want to just forget about him and move on to someone else, but every time I hear a sad song or see his picture I get really depressed. If I try and go out with another guy all I do is think about him. Help please! How do I get over him?
2006-12-07 14:47:44 · 7 answers · asked by stephbowers3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like thi guy is no good for you. He tells you your not mature enough? Even if that's true it's not a kind thing to say. You need someone who won't say mean things like that to you and can have the decency to give you a straightforward answer. He's got some growing up to do, and you don't need to wait around for him.The first step to gettinover this guy is realizing he s not what you realy want or need. Perhaps your prince is really just a frog afterall...
2006-12-07 14:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by misshiccups 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Any person that wants to change who you are isn't worth being friends with let alone dating. Getting over him may be the hard part. It varies from person to person. Stay busy and always be doing something so that you have less time to think about him. See a movie or comedy show. Hang out with your friends and family. Try something new.
2006-12-07 14:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over him by meeting someone else. He is just stringing you along. He wants to keep you handy in case he can't find anyone else that piques his interest.
You are too good for that. Move on and find someone else. Then see how fast this first guy gets jealous.
2006-12-07 14:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never ever ever get over him. you will have a life of depression and cry every day and night.
2006-12-07 14:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get over quickly because he is bad news try and copy yourself with a hobby
2006-12-07 14:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you keep reading your question until you change YOUR mind about HIM.
2006-12-07 14:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by wildblackflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE WANTS YOU TO CHANGE FOR HIM ITS NOT WORTH LOSING YOUR OWN IDENTY FOR A MAN COME ON LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR A LOSER
2006-12-07 14:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by GIRLYPENGUIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋