Do you ever feel that after you break up with a guy. That he is not the problem of your sadness but its other personal issues that hurt more. Such as Family, friends or other life situations?
2006-12-07 14:38:53 · 10 answers · asked by Inamra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a chip of the ice berg....yes..of course we all have our baggage...
2006-12-07 14:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that I'm too open when it comes to trusting, and I tend to share my problems with my BF, this is the only regret that I have, since I'm a very reserved person that doesn't tend to share her problems with the rest of the world (for example, on Yahoo answers), but I when I do, it would be with people that I find that I can confide in. The problem is , with many girls is that they give into their problems more easily, and they ***** about too much to their boyfriends thinking that they can say whatever they want and treat them however they like just because they are suffering. This should not be this way- if there are problems, they should be addressed but girls should a little bit more mindful how they carry it around their boyfriends. Not to dump all their rage and misery on them...because, after all, we are human, and we all tend to break.
Hope that answered your question.
2006-12-07 14:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by LaLaLand 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yes! Reason for this is - When you are going out with a guy and having problems, all of the 'other' problems like family, friends etc don't seem as important and your boy/girl problems are at the front of your mind. When you break up with someone - you are left with all the other problems that were haunting you before, but now you concentrate on them more.
2006-12-07 14:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Absolutely. But sometimes it does drift back to the guy, especially if he cheated and/or trust was an issue. But absolutely. When people dont want to blame themselves for things going badly, we tend to blame anything or anyone else for our problems. Which is NOT good but we do it anyway. We just need to recognize that we make our own decions and controll our own actions, so a break up could have been caused by him, or you. Not because your boss yelled at you. Does that make any sense?
2006-12-07 14:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The end of a relationship typically is uncomfortable at the least...but there also may be other things going on in life that are getting us down as well. Sure.
2006-12-07 14:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. my ex broke up with me the day the dics said they thought my mom had cancer. so i really was not even thinking about what he did till after we found out mom did not have cancer.
2006-12-07 14:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my.. thats what ive bn thinking abt.. i wanted to break up with my b/f but im hving 2nd thoughts that he may not be the problem.... what should we do abt this?!
2006-12-07 14:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally
2006-12-07 14:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it think it all mixes in together.
2006-12-07 14:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STUUUUPIIIDDD QUESTION..my stupid question radar is going off!
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2006-12-07 14:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ggvhjbghvj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋