ok my bf plays around with other girls and sits with them insted of me and he seems to like them. he will hardly talk to me and i thought about making him jelouse by flirting with other guys, any more sugestions about making him jelous! help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 14:37:47 · 23 answers · asked by rockchick182 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just find someone else without telling him. dont pay him any attention. find you a guy and do the same thing. then when he comes around, say "oh but you were messing around so i assumed we broke up." and if he says you didnt then say "oh we have now" and smile and walk off
2006-12-07 14:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's the number one point you should live by. You shouldn't have to play games to gain the attention of your boyfriend. If he is sitting with other girls and you are right there, he is being a jerk. I think you should make it a regular practice to ignore him and start looking for another guy who will give you all of his attention. You deserve a lot more than this. However, some thing tells me that you are young so I am going to give you this piece of advice. Find someone that you really like and you will forget all about Mr. Jerk. That will make him insanely jealous.
2006-12-07 22:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making him jealous isn't going to accomplish anything. Just leave him. You deserve better than him. Get back at him by being the bigger person. If he's hardly talking to you, is it because you aren't approaching him or because he's ignoring you? If he's ignoring you and flirting with other girls, then he's probably not interested and you shouldn't waste anymore time on him. Also, if he's not interested in you then there is no real way to make him jealous. The best thing you can do is leave him, and move on. Don't sulk about it, don't complain about it to your friends, just move on. Showing him that you are just fine without him, and that he had no real effect on you to begin with can be a stab in itself. Throwing yourself at other guys is never a good idea. You deserve better than this sleeze ball.
2006-12-07 22:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by WhitneyR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know , there are just to , too many games you young people play . Just get up one day look at him straight in the face and say , what's it going to be me or them grow up I'm not a puppy that sits and waits until your good and ready to talk to me , I'm not your car that you let sit idling while you bull-sh-ting with other cars . You know what I mean , this is so disrespectful to me as your girlfriend that I'm embarrassed for you that you act like such a child , get over yourself and grow-up already.
2006-12-07 22:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by I'M JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight fire with fire. Just give him the cold shoulder and act like you aren't bothered even if you really are. If he actually wants to be with you, he will notice the change in you personality and bring it to your attention. After he does tell him why you have changed, if he gives you some lame excuse about them just being friends and makes it seem as though you are tripping, dump his *** right there and don't look back.
If he doesn't own up to his behavior you really don't need him anyway because who knows what else he won't own up to.
2006-12-07 22:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play childish jealousy games. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't change his behavior then dump him. If you want to play a game, get out the Monopoly board...relationships and people's hearts and heads, aren't game boards.
If he's going to ignore you when other girls are around, why do you want to be with him anyway?
2006-12-07 22:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time, you will only make yourself appear foolish. Just break up with him and find someone else. Or better yet, just stay alone and concentrate on your education. There will be many more boys in the future when you go off to college. God bless****
2006-12-07 22:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't give you any attention then that's not much of a boyfriend .he is a loser find another one who will be proud to sit with you and talk and play with you only. good luck
2006-12-07 22:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and instead of bringing this to his attention you want to make him jealous? what if it backfires and he ends it? or what if he doesn't take any notice of you? In the long run you're going to be the one left hurting so tell him you don't appreciate being treated 2nd rate and his constant flirting.
2006-12-07 22:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by minitotz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont even waste ure time with him. if he ignores u and flirts with other girls he probably doesnt care about u. I would walk up to him when he is talking to those other girls and break up with him. not only will he be embarrassed but those other girls will see him for what he is...a player wanna be.
2006-12-07 22:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋