its just that im an only child, my father is Guyanese(west indian) and mother is Peruvian (spanish). ALL of my family lives in both of those countries as well as New Jersey and parts of New York. due to this i guess i never really developed the tools necessary for socializing especially with girls/relationships. i have good intentions and high hopes unfortunately, and it seems i get either turned down ALOT or that girl already has a bf already. How does my situation sound to yall? it'd really be great to get someones perspective. i TOTALLY feel the odd man out especially at school where everyone my age is SO experienced.
2006-12-07 14:31:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL NO YOUR NOT WIERD!!1 hahaha my moms peruvian!!! lol yeah my bro is that way and hes doing college first making somthing of his life.. to him women, girls are just getting in the way... but thats just him. he has lots of girl-friends... but as girlfriends....no. although there has been this one girl who has talked to him alot b4.. hmm.. but hey man you are not wierd. i believe it when they say there is someone out there for someone else... and as for the girls you asked... f u c k them they dont noe **** when it comes to getting the perfect guys.. all looks and no mind for them... haha. hang in there. shes out there.. somewhere.. become something and not only will you get a SMART girl but an impressed girl.. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-07 14:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'm 20 and I've never had a girlfriend. Although, since that's my choice some would call me wierd. In my case, though, I believe in not getting into a relationship that doesn't have serious potential for marriage. Less emotional baggage that way (not to mention STDs). I have plenty of friends (both male and female), but that's all. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-07 14:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Point7Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i can really relate! I am 18 too and have never had a boyfriend and i also worry about the experience thing at times. But really like we have to not worry about it and get on with our lives. People always say that when your not looking someone suddenly comes into your life! So my advice to you is to stop stressing, enjoy life and have fun with friends, and one day that special someone will just come along, and thats when you just go for it!
Good Luck to the both of us!!
2006-12-07 14:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by yahoooooooooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was a teen everyone said there was something wrong with me because I do not have a girlfriend.I was called gay due to no girlfriend.I was not popular and very shy.I was also bullied to the point of depression.
Girls in high school only want popular guys.They will
not go out with guys who are not popular,shy or bullied.
I could not get a date to save my life.I wnated to die
because I could not fit in.
No you are not weird,give it time.be sociable.
2006-12-08 14:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by doulasc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not have to have a girl friend to look cool or feel good! everybody starts to date at all ages! i started dating just a year ago and let me tell you, when i started dating at 18, it was very hard and i was not sure how to act around guys! so, take it one step at a time and go with the flow. don't pay attention to what other people say or tell you, just be yourself!
2006-12-07 15:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that being an only child or where your family is from is the reason why you haven't had a girlfriend.
2006-12-07 14:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ggvhjbghvj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw... you aren't weird. Some people can live without a lover. If you want one than find one but if you don't, don't worry about it. You are an independant man.
2006-12-07 14:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first i want apologize for spelling badly im only 13 and dont care!!! you arent wierd u just havent found someone special enough for you yet and if you have found someone special enough and you dont have her then its her loss!!! but dont be worried about it just go with the flow and you will find that special someone eventually!!!
2006-12-07 14:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by anime_manga_geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 14 and asked the same thing and well if you havent met a girl that kissed you it just isnt your time hope that helps
2006-12-07 14:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i smell what youre steppin in. Get a buddy and go out and randomly approach women dude. Thats how you GET experience.
2006-12-07 14:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋