I love him but I don't what to live like this for ever so I don't know if I want to leave him are not.
2006-12-07 14:25:34 · 14 answers · asked by ALLEYCAT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey if he hasn't left his family yet he is just using you for a piece of a@@ so i would either start a life of loneliness except for a sexual relationship, or i would dump his *** and move on....
2006-12-07 14:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Digi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He will NEVER leave his wife. You are WASTING your LIFE waiting on him. Tell him it is over and DON'T look back. Find someone that ISN'T MARRIED and start a real relationship that can have a future. This relationship has NO future.
Sorry this is so blunt but I really think you need to hear it this way. You have waited too long on a man that has NO respect for you. If he did, he wouldn't have gotten involved with you in the first place with him being married. He is sitting around chuckling about how he has his cake and is eating it too at the expense of you. It is time to move on. Don't let him talk you out of it. You deserve better than him.
2006-12-07 22:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not going to leave his wife for you... You are wasteing your pretty on him. Just think about how you would feel if your husband was doing you the way this man is doing his wife. He is not yours to have. Even if he did leave his wife the last thing he is going to want to do is get married again.. I know this woman who waited around for 13 years for a married man to leave his wife and as it turned out there was always something stopping him from leaving home. Come to find out he was still in love with his ex wife. So this other woman is in her mid forties and alone... and this man that who is still married tow wife number 2 is also seeing his ex wife on the side. and I don't know if you know it or not but to be 40 and finding someone who is worth having well girl it is easier to win a multi million dollar lottery... All I can say is if you stay with him then you desearve everything you get and the way I look at it by you seeing a man who you know to be married well you are just as bad as he is... I think you two belong together.. but I'm not the one who decides that... From the looks of it Your Married boyfriend is the one who has the upper hand.... If it was me I would go and meet the wife and have all the proof in the world that you are having sex with her husband. then she will kick him out and then you will know for sure if this man was ever yours or not.. I would lay my bet on the (he was never yours) card.
2006-12-07 22:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were you thinking getting involved with a married man in the first place. He is never going to leave his wife, you will always be second best. And when he can find time or when he wants some sex he will find his way to your door. You have wasted six years of your life being the other women, Grow a self esteem and find a man who is available. Or you can spend the rest of your life being second best. With your self esteem slowly deteriorating and suffer alone in silence. You need to figure out what is going on with you that allows you to feel you don't deserve any better. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-07 22:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would run and repent. Why would you put yourself through such emotional distress. Hes married for a reason 6 years is too long to waste your time. Yes some men do leave their women for the mistress but the likelihood of that is slim to none. You need to focus on commitment being with him is safe and you know hes not leaving please Respect yourself and find someone who will love you and give you what you need ....Put yourself in his wives shoes. Does she deserve this that selfish
2006-12-07 22:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes just using you for a piece of *** on the side. hes not going to leave his family. and shame on you for sleeping with a married guy in the first place!! it's the selfish whores like you that are responsible for the increased divorce rate!! as soon as you found out he was married you should have left him!!
2006-12-07 22:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol silly girl he's not going to leave. He has his cake and he's eating it too. And IF he leaves he'll end up leaving you for someone too. And you say you dont want to live like this forever, honey youve been dealing with it for 6 long years and you've allowed it so why should it change now.
2006-12-07 22:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would not be with a married man in the first place. but as for your question, you need to leave him. if its been that long - hes not leaving. hes got both of you right where he wants you and hes living it up. dump him. hes not worth your time. besides if hes cheating on her he is and will cheat on you also! DID YA THINK ABOUT THAT?
2006-12-07 22:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he waiting for his kids to graduate from school or something? I think that would be the only thing I'd wait for. But I can't imagine the heartache of dating a married man. You must feel so sad and alone.
2006-12-07 22:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by honey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's assume you were his wife and he was having a six-year affair with someone else. Think about that situation. That will answer your question.
And same for what hot stuff said. You should be ashamed of yourself.
2006-12-07 22:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Drowningbluestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋