!!!Need Some Advice!!!?

Question

Ok, i'm a really shy guy to most ppl, mostly girls, but as soon as someone starts a conversasion i can sometimes talk like i do with my friends. There's alot of girls i know but i cant talk to them i just get nervous. I'm also a big gamer nerd and i keep mostly to myself whereas the girl i like is outgoing and likes to be funny.

So this girl i like, not sure if she likes me. We only talk in class sometimes and when she does talk to me it's usually just jokes about me. To be honest i really don't know much about her but from what i know she's a great person. i'm not sure how to approch her and i doubt she'd make the first move. Also, the thing is that there's not a good time to talk to her, her friends are around her talking or the rest of the class would notice.

So i need some advice for help making the first move. i was thinking about asking for her e-mail or give her mine and talk to her more online then maybe ask her out later? any other ideas?

Answer 1

ok...#1 you shouldnt care about what other people think, its your opinion that counts! im sure you are a great guy and if someone cant see that then its their own fault and they will miss out. #2 give her you e-mail thats a great idea! and if you dont feel like aproaching her durring the day try and get to know her online like with messenger or something like that (sometimes writing can express more than what you say to people out loud). #3 always stick to your gut instinct and always be yourself! (nobody likes a fake) #4 some girls like guys that are straight forward. just start a casual conversation like asking a question about the work you are doing or something (like pretending you dont understand) then go from there...im a shy person too and this always works for me...and build on the conversation from there. hope this helps and good luck 2 yas :]

Answer 2

I think if you really like this girl, you should make the first move. Forget the email thing because most girls like when a guy is forward and says that he likes her. Using emailing for communication is just another way to hide and avoid contact. If you are not comfortable enough yet, ask her for some help with your studies (I am sure you don't need it). Or, invite her for a friendly lunch. Try to learn as much about her likes and dislikes. You might soon realize that you two have a lot more in common than you initially though. Or, you might find something that You don't like about her and decide you don't like her that much at all anymore. You'll never know unless you try.

Answer 3

ok kiddo! I'm quessing you're in high school, going through all sorts of hormonal changes and noticing the opposite sex. You're normal. Getting good grades? Boy have I got good news for you. Geeks make the best husbands. Right now girls are looking for attention not relationships, and if she's making fun of you, don't waste your time or enery on her. Be the best God made you to be. Be clean about yourself and smell good. Clean clothes, and continue to excel in school. When women choose a husband they look for someone who can be kind to them and provide a secure future. Teens are very critical to each other, so don't get sucked into it. Find a great youth group. Don't worry, your not the only shy one. Wait till you see what the future has for you............it's going to be wonderful. Trust me!

Answer 4

The asking for her e-mail addresses is great. Or if you know where she lives... get her some little something for Christmas and put it in her mailbox with your phone number or e-mail address on the inside somewhere. And if she calls you or e-mails you then she probably likes you. But don't give up hope if she doesn't call or e-mail you.

Answer 5

just go for it the worst she can say is no..