I kept trying to get back with this guy that I hurt, but couldn't never get a hold of him. I asked for advice on here and got told to leave him alone. That I had done my part and now it was time for him to do his. Well it took a couple of weeks,but he finally called. He said I hurt him by going away and that he will commit to me, but to please not hurt him again. I stayed with him for two days. We went shopping with his mom. She even asked me what I wanted for x-mas and I don't even know her that well. Then he took me to have dinner with his family. This was a trip because we have been best friends for over a year and I've never been to his moms before. Did it take me leaving and to stop trying before he finally realized what he wanted. Whats going on why the drastic changes?
2006-12-07 14:20:26 · 5 answers · asked by mystical 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys are always going to be a mystery!! it sounds like you must of hurt his feelings alot and it took him alot of time and searching to forgive and it sounds like he has!! through this i think he relized that you hurt him alot but that he must really love you to forgive you and start over. Maybe it took this pain to relize that you made a mistake but he loves you and found it in his heart to keep you!! And sounds like he wants you around for a long time. He wants his mother to get to know you and of course that means hes forgiven you and wants you to stay in his life. Sounds like your a lucky girl you made a mistake not that we all dont!! and this man loves you Now you have to forgive yourself and move on with him I wish you both all the luck in the world
2006-12-07 14:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by tara_tiger83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is really trying with you. Time for you to stop analyzing everything and either be in this because you care or bow out and leave this poor guy alone
2006-12-07 22:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,like the old saying goes, if you love some one let him or her go if they come back it,s yours ...if not be glad.he knew you loved him and he knew you never meant to hurt him.When you left him alone he had time to think and realize that you could have moved on and he knew he didnt want anyone else to have you,and if you stay gone to long he knew someone else would scoop you up,so he took you off of punishment.He love you and you love him,please dont hurt him again.CONGRADULATIONS!!!
2006-12-07 22:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by ellie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got bored and lonely and decided he had nothing better to do so he called you. now he's playing the game of telling you what you want to hear so you will give up your time for him him until someone better comes along. It took him 2 weeks to call you. long enough to want Little sex.If he really loved you then you all would not have broke up. good luck.
2006-12-07 22:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you two end up married.... awe.
2006-12-07 22:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋