girl i always feel hopeless. I really don't know how to stop this destructive power. How can i feel better about myself when talking to girls?
2006-12-07 14:15:38 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to have confidence in yourself! That is so important. Take a chance and if you get turned down try again! You really never know unless you try. Find things that she is interested in and try and relate to her. You can't feel hopeless...In time you will find her. Build up your confidence first. Find things that are great about yourself and flourish.. There are great attributes in everybody you just need to remind yourself more often of how great you can be. This should be an exciting time in your life of dating and enjoying so many different people..Good luck to you!
2006-12-07 14:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start feeling better about yourself. Take a reality check and just take some time to think about what a great human being you are. Then go and try to be that "great human being" with others. You need not try to impress - just smile say "hi" and be yourself... Perhaps if you talk about something in common. Do you both have the same teacher? Classes? Sports interests? How about asking about her family. It's nice to try to get to know someone in an unstressed, not forced way. Ask if she wants to go get a Coke and McDonald's or something...
2006-12-07 22:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a lack of self esteem, or a little anxiety, Their are two ways to go about this the first one is to try to talk to a friend girl and get comfortable being in the presents and to get use to talking to a girl, the next way is to bust your own self esteem it's easy really find something your good at that others can see you do like bar-tend, or play ball Then when you feel OK just OK, go and talk to any girl it dose not matter whom, just any girl, this will do two things one relive you of you anxiety and two you'll be so hipped up that nothing should bother you, you want that positive reinforcement form friends and girls in general, the mind will relate positively to this and that is what your real obstacle is your self, stand up straight hold your head up and just be your self, trust me it gets easier and shall we say more eventful.
2006-12-07 22:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe we all have at one time are another.Sometimes the ones that are friends are the easiest to talk to and they end up being the ones you want to be with.
2006-12-07 22:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence! nothing more sexy than confidence pal! and just be yourself....its hard for you because you are trying to be something you are not...dont be so stressed about it...we are humans just like you....and if they are that snotty and judgemental....then move along to a nice down to earth gal thats secure with herself too!
2006-12-07 22:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have confindince issues. just find a girl you like an just sit an start talkin to her just rember dont b to talkie. just ask about her an what she likes n comment
2006-12-07 22:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by blond_n_punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think she's just one of your good friends and be yourself dont try to be what you not.
2006-12-07 22:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by fontinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋