So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we live together. A few months ago he started a new job and doesn't work all that much. Lately I've been catching him in little lies. Just about how he says he was working in the office until 4 but I see he was home around 2. And he is addicted to porn on the computer. Its really hurting me and making it hard for me but I love him so much I'm not sure what to do.
What makes it even harder is he has a daughter that is almost 20 months and I have been around her since she was only about 2 months. I love her and she is so attached to me. He only has her part time and the sad thing is I'm probably more of a mother figure to her then her own mom and I don't want to pull away from her.
2006-12-07 14:04:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That he lies to me about when he gets home and he denies the porn part. If you have a girlfriend who likes to have sex with you why do you need to jack off like twice a day?
2006-12-07 14:11:50 · update #1
I understand, you dont know if you should be with him anymore. That is a pretty hard situation to be in. Why dont you try talking to him and telling him that his porn addiction is hurting you and your guys' relationship. Why does he lie about working till if hes home at 2? doesnt he understand you'll end up finding out. My advice would just be to talk to him and let him know how you're feeling. Communication is the best solution. If he still doesnt understand, maybe go to a counselor or try to find outside help!
2006-12-07 14:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem? he likes porn, or he doesnt work?
2006-12-07 14:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋