if a guy you were going out with for only 3 monthsasked you to marry him would you say yes, dump him, or just say its to early and go on with your relationship?
this is not happening to me im just curious
2006-12-07 13:47:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
too early, why wry about marriage after 3 months of dating u hardly know the person...thats like going on a blind date and being proposed to! HELL WITH THAT!.
2006-12-07 13:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the relationship, but most likely too early. I knew after a few dates that I would marry my husband. We just clicked and are perfect for each other =) (We dated 2 years before getting engaged though!)
2006-12-07 22:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how you feel about him. If you care for him, and think he is jsut rushing - then tell him it is to early and to ask you again in a year. If you don't like him much and this is a final straw- break it off. If you love him and know you want to spend your life with him - say yea (it seems fast, and usually would be to fast, but my parents only dated 6 months and have been happily married for 27 years so it;'s not impossible)
2006-12-09 16:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is too early unless you both feel the same way. I would just go on with the relationship you have then if he wanted to. You might upset him and he might dump you if you say no.
2006-12-07 21:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At any age --- Way, Way, Way Too Early!!!
You do not even know the guy!!!
Get to know him (the true Him) well before you even think about such a thing!
You're talking about your life and wellbeing here! Don't choose so quickly!
You're young, my child
You've Oh so much to learn
And growing up is hard to do
Take your time,
Wait your turn! (c) 1977 by The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
IMHO,
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2006-12-07 21:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date for at least three more weeks and then get married! You'll for sure be divorced in two months, which is the amount of time you should have spent getting to know one another!
2006-12-07 21:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by ginap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too early !!! You need proper time to get to know them , their quirky nuances , their good habits & bad habits , see them on their very best of days and very worst of days and get to know them INSIDE and OUT before you jump into marriage after only 3 months.... Three months is only a "Honeymoon" - Marriage is {apparently} a lifetime !
Cheers !
2006-12-07 21:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by LWJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would wait a while. If he needed to get married that quickly then he is probably trying to hide something! I would definitely want to get to know him much better.
2006-12-08 03:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married him. Took him dinner at work tonight.
2006-12-07 23:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then at least you can conclude that the answer is not "yes".
2006-12-07 21:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by jtm2300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋