well we been talkin on da phone n he seems to just ignore me and not listen... he saw how hard it was to make the relationship work for me... n
it seems like he doesnt notice it... but when i have him face to face he acts like the best boyfriend... does dat mean he just likes me to hang out?or actually takes me serious as his girl?
2006-12-07 13:44:29 · 9 answers · asked by GUERITA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there,
Dear may be he really does not like talking on the phone. Some people are like that. They just dont know what conversation to have on the phone. My husband is like that. He is very loving and all but when ever i call him he is absolutely lost. At first i use to find it very disturbing when we were dating but later over a period of time when i actually started understanding him i started realising he does not like chatting on phone.
If you still confused why dont you just ask him when you meet him in person that you dont like the way he talks to you on phone. He will definately tell you what is the actually problem. The best way to solve the problem is meet him and pour your heart out to him about how you feel. I am sure he will understand and give you atleast the reason for his behaviour.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-07 17:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, u'd better ask him that! don't live by guesswork...infact the best thing to do is to take a deep breath and...ask him how he feels about both of u!!
i know that may sound tough...but its unavoidable. most girls just presume how a guy may feel but u have to make yor stand clear...
more importantly, don't scare him by over-reacting or becoming hysterical. let him know that it's ok for him to feel whichever way he wants to(even if it's not!!), bcz he'll not open up if he feels threatened(most men avoid conflict).
but since u work so hard at the relatioship, u deserve to know where u folks are...just ask him that and dont use too many words. make it clear and simple.
2006-12-08 00:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by jaded angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you really like this guy or are you finding it difficult to go of him. Allow the love bird to fly. Sometimes people don't know what they have until it is taking away.
2006-12-07 21:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very simple why u feel this ki he don't like u,he is not serious abt u or he ignores u its just ur own thoughts ur making ur self confused B'coz ur r so serious abt him & even u wan him to take u as granted as his girl....
don't worry u will come to know abt his feeling & thoughts abt u very soon B+ always an don't run behind any frd an take him/her as serious as wat u did now take care
2006-12-07 22:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by anuj009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound strange. He might be with someone else when u call him. Check him out
2006-12-07 23:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Toronto boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR ask him very politly when he meets u.tell him u fell bad for his behaviuor.if the situation goes same then its better to stop it.
2006-12-08 02:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by neha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basic principle of love is:
LET GO FREE, IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU ITS YOURS
2006-12-07 23:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by Pooja Bedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he likes you and wants you to pay more attention to him.
2006-12-08 00:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm poor at things like these.........
2006-12-08 02:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by David SRK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋