We use to work together until he moved. We still talk as friends but he wants more but all he talks about is having sex with me. I really don't like him like that but he gets mad and say i don't know when i see a good guy. But all is see is he wants to have sex. What do you think?
2006-12-07 13:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by sunshinebear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't respect you; tell him you can't speak with him anymore. Because that's really immature of him. Make sure you tell a trustful friend, so you can have someone to talk to about it; and let them know what's going one because if he's one of those violent types, you get my point.
2006-12-07 13:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by Danys M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since he's in another country it's not really an issue...but if I were you I'd simply tell him to stop with the sex comments and if he didn't then the conversation would cease at that point (hang up the phone, log off the IM, ignore the comment in email, etc) until he gets the point or gets lost.
He's not much of a friend if he's pushing you about something he knows you don't desire.
2006-12-07 21:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants to see if you are a good person in bed and if you aren't, then you won't be friends anymore or just friends. I had a similar thing happen to me and I told him, I'm not your sex toy and I'm not gong to have sex with you if you like it or not. If you don't want to be friends anymore, then have that be but I don't want to be your sex toy. We are now just friends and he hasn't brought it up since then. I hope I helped you and GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-07 21:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by dancer 4evera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your instincts. your not interested in him in a sexual way. dont let him force you into anything you dont want to do. tell him that your uncomfortable when he talks like this and let him know that if he keeps it up its going to ruin your friendship. remember if hes really your friend, he will accept and understand how you feel. dont stress just stick to your guns
2006-12-07 21:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sat get rid of him, or, if you still want to be friends just don't talk to him for a while and then maybe he'll stop.
2006-12-07 21:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by troy_ward_43_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he's a creep and you really should stay away from him. I don't want to judge him, but his behavior is very inappropriate. He might get aggresive and/or controlling if you don't pull away soon.
2006-12-07 21:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cant understand that you just want to be friends then he needs to move on either friends or nothing
2006-12-07 21:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my. he's a complete pervert. just tell him how you really feel. if he really is a friend then he would understand. but if he still won't then tell him to 'get a life'.
2006-12-07 21:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by seebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your number, tell him straight out the famous line you girls are so famous for it " I just wanna be Friends". lol
2006-12-07 21:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him, he's controling you from a different country and that's no good.
2006-12-07 21:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋