And I'm talking about a normal, average, every day guy. Not a sex crazed sociopath or anything.
2006-12-07 13:18:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nooo
of course not
2006-12-07 13:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what sex has to do with love. Sure, sex is an important part of a relationship, but there's a lot more to love than that.
It's about respect, compromise, being supportive, and honesty for starters. Everything else after that is just an afterthought, including sex. I mean, you can have a great sex life, but it doesn't mean that you necessarily love someone.
And if someone tells you that sleeping with them will make them love you, then you need to break up with them. Only a shallow, manipulative person would say that.
2006-12-07 21:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me that you are not serious when you ask that question, but just in case you are here is your answer.
Sex can never make a guy fall in love with you. Guys fall in love with women for many reason and I honestly believe that sex is at the bottom of the list. Why? A man can get sex anywhere. If you asked 50 men what made them fall in love with a women you will get fifty different answers. There is no one thing that will make a man fall in love with you and because women are as different as snow flakes and a man's appetitte may vary, to say that sex will cause him to fall in love is a mistake.
I would suggest that you ask him what attracts him to you or any women for that matter. Then I suggest that you see if you actually have what it takes to make him fall in love. You may be surprised to find that sex is not a factor for him.
2006-12-07 21:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Willard S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Absolutely not. Men fall in love with women that they respect. When I was dating, I only slept with guys that I didn't really like. I know that sounds funny, but if it was a guy that I really thought I might have a future with, I never complicated the relationship with sex until we were in love. Remember the old saying "Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?" - make that guy work for it.
2006-12-07 21:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by willtradeformoney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! you can never fall in love by having sex. Love comes from the heart with spending time with someone, getting to know each other, sharing things together never just by having sex.
2006-12-07 21:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be serious hell no. Now if there is some other kind of connection then it is a possibility because sex can only make it better. But if sex is all you have honey you might as well cut your losses cause it will not be more than what it is.
2006-12-07 21:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by mshappiest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably
it better to establish love first, then the sex is amazing if or when you get there
when too people are just melting, technique, fast or slow, doesn't even matter much. Sometimes just a glance or a light touch from one finger could be better than an all nighter.
2006-12-07 21:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. That's the wrong way to get love. You should find a guy that you have things in common with, start a relationship with him and love will blossom from that, and then you have sex with him.
2006-12-07 21:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by L♥G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt he wont fall in love with u hed proabably fall for what u got to offer and most of the time if u give it up too mch he willl start to like u less.
2006-12-08 15:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by deedee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but sex does not make love! Love is something that just happens, you can't make it happen! What is enough times anyway? I think you have confused lust with like.
2006-12-07 21:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-12-07 21:21:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋