this is in connection to my previous quote"i make my life complicated"... for others to have an idea. im a married woman with kids and now involved with a woman in net. thorn between 2 esp people in my life. this woman knows all about me. i told her from the start that im a married woman and it wont work between us but still as time flies i fall in love with her. and it was a good feeling. now i dont see her come online often. her friend told me she dont have net in her home now. its not an excuse. she can call me. her friend assure me she loves me very much and i have nothing to worry. but i dont think thats the way it is. i was thinking maybe she's trying to let go of me by not coming online to not make me worry a lot and get back to my family. if thats the case, she's right on that but it so hard. i learn to love her and i cant bear to loose her. sure i dont want to loose my family too and i know if my husband knew abt it im in big trouble. confused... HEART OR MIND???
2006-12-07 13:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by totallylost 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I just have to shake my head in disbelief. You have a committment to your husband and kids, not some stranger on the net.
Period.
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2006-12-07 13:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MIND! In many cases I would have said heart...but not so in yours. There must be something wrong in your marriage to make you think you need to go elsewhere. This person probably made you feel good about yourself. Anyway, bottom line is you need to work on your marriage with your WHOLE HEART. You can't do that with someone else in the picture.
Do it for yourself, your clueless husband and most importantly your kids. If after you have tried everything.... talking, counceling, ect and you are still unhappy then at least you know you tried and you can make a decision from there.
2006-12-07 13:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by rengifo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree you have a family - WHAT ARE YOU DOING - YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE OVER THE NET- I don't think it's your heart or your mind-
LIVE A REAL LIFE- not over the computer- people LIE.
2006-12-07 13:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sherry C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to your family! Let this phantasy go.
You have a husband and kids who need you. If things are bad at home, you and hubby may need counselling.
Don't waste your time making up dreams.
2006-12-10 15:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind! It is easy to love someone who is mostly in your mind. You don't know this person, really know her. As long as she is mostly a figment of your imaginatoin she will seem to be wonderful.
2006-12-07 13:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by raredawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about this girl!! and just be happy with your family!!
2006-12-07 13:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEART and MIND
2006-12-08 03:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋