Thanks for bothering to look, now here's the deal. I like this girl, and she's one of the only people I talk to at school. Problem is, she mentioned once she has a bf away at college, and now it's way harder to talk to her since i like her. What to do...
PS- "Just Talking" won't work because I'm extremely shy, and everytime i want to bring up wether she has a bf I choke and can't speak.
2006-12-07 13:08:17 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some balls man (Confidence so to speak) then everything else will flow as expected. You'll leave school thinking about how great that conversation went with that one girl and feel proud. Just ask questions about her, (how her day is going, how she is doing in class, etc..)
Who cares if she has a BF, a friendship is good enough. You never know what may happen if she breaks up :) Since she mentioned the BF then thats bad news. My advice, keep her as a friend.
2006-12-07 13:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend, which she probably does since she mentioned it, don't bother asking her out. It might not be good for your confidence, since she will probably say no.
Since the semester is ending for most colleges soon, ask her if her boyfriend is coming home for Christmas break. That way you can find out if they are still together.
About just regular talking, try conversations about movies or music you both like or maybe a tv show you watched the night before. Maybe she watched it too. Ask her about something you knows she likes to do, like sports or another hobby.
2006-12-07 13:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to dinner as just Friends,then pop the ?? tell her how you feel,(be honest) tell her that you were hoping that the friendship date that y'all or on could be more than just that,don't say anything about love till u get to know her better,as this will scare away many women,show her how much u care for her,listen to everything she says,let nothing distract u while u talk to her. also,she may not have a bf,she may be saying this to get a response from u,be cool about it, say something like "i was hoping that you didn't have a bf so we could make more or our Friend ship,i cant stop thinking of you when were away from each other.etc.... go from there.get close enought to her and maybe she will kiss u??
2006-12-07 13:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha noob
just quit actin dumb
ask her on the internet er somthin...find a creative idea so u dont have to talk
2006-12-07 13:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry. being shy is just a figment in your mind. and if you really like her talk to her like she is just another person and dont think about her as a crush but a friend and u'll be gettin sumwere.
2006-12-07 13:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ta Ta 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
say this, hi how's it going? she says whaterver, than u say cool, then u say would you like to go watch a movie with me?
YOU MUST SAY THIS, and A MOVIE IS REALLY EASY BECAUSE MOVIE TALKS TO HER FOR U! LoL
2006-12-07 13:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by jared l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋