give me the respect i need should i just leave him alone
2006-12-07 13:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by tiffany s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The big issue is if he knows what he's doing.
With friends sometimes honest communication about a problem can be especially difficult because friends usually assume that they can quickly identify each other's problems.
But in all reality without proper communication a friendship can diminish faster than a fight would make it end.
If you have a quarrel with your friend, for example, because of his behavior, calmly explain to him one day what he is doing and how it is hurting you.
If he understands and listens, and tries to work it out you can tell that he is a real friend and that things will be able to work out.
But if he continues to infuriate you, and you know that he hasn't done anything to at least address the issue. Than in may be time to try harsher treatments such as firmly telling him how you feel (without over use of emotion) or eventually going your separate ways.
If your friend does not respect your wishes enough to try to fix any problem between you two, then it's better if you two part.
But then again, if you don't equally try on your part to actually explain why you're mad, then you are to blame too.
2006-12-07 14:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone for a little bit he might end up coming round and it will be easier to talk about it then being mad!!
2006-12-07 21:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you need to tell him how you feel and have him start respecting you and if he doesnt then you need to let him go cuz he is not worth your time if he wont give you some respect!
2006-12-07 21:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, walk away. If he doesn't respect your need for space he doesn't respect you.
2006-12-07 21:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes just avoid him he will get the message
2006-12-07 21:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you need
maybe he has it for you, maybe not
maybe he needed to vent a little in his own way
2006-12-07 21:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to that one.
2006-12-07 21:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-12-07 21:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol screw him hes a douche
2006-12-07 21:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by divided skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep u should
2006-12-07 21:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by FabOlouS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋