abortion but now he's in the army basic training i wrote him a letter but do you think he will stay with me
2006-12-07 13:03:04 · 15 answers · asked by tiffany s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It doesn't matter if he is going to stay with you or not. You need to be honest with him and above all, take care of yourself and your baby! If he doesn't stay with you, that's not the end of the world - really. You need to talk to someone about this. If you're really young and not ready for this baby, put it up for adoption. Right now is not the time to worry about him though. It's not good for you or your baby. Enjoy the pregnancy as much as you can. You can't make him do anything... Do what's right for you and your baby. Good luck!
2006-12-08 01:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by zaniest1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant I didn't tell anyone... of course eventually people found out. My boyfriend couldn't handle the fact that I had left him out of the loop on something so important for such a long time. He decided to step up and be a father for the child but our relationship is still kind of awkward at times because of the fact that he didn't think I trusted him or had enough faith in him to tell him. I'm very proud of you for telling your boyfriend. Maybe your situation will be better than mine because of it. But even the sweetest of guys are still going to feel awkward about the situation. I hope he will stay with you, if he is a good man and your relationship was worth it he will. But don't be shocked if he's upset that you couldn't share that with him.
2006-12-07 13:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I know you know you should have told him, but we cant go back in time, I think and I hope that he will understand. If hes a real man which seems like he is since he has joined the Army,I believe he will stay with you and the baby, you need to pray about it and have faith, things will work out for you! Good Luck, Happy Holidays and God Bless!!!
2006-12-07 13:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should decide this for yourself if your bf can't handle it than maybe you weren't meant for each other but do not get an abortion after all that is technically murder and at least give it the chance of life or get it adopted who knows your bf could be so excited. I would try to think of a way to break the news if your bf is violent then idk have family around and try to talk about kids and ask him if u want to have one again this is just me you dont have to do anything you dont want to but remember that if god gives you a gift would'nt you keep it and not return it rudely like some wonderful birthday gift you dont like the color of.
2006-12-07 13:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by sexycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could go either way. I was nervous when I told my husband (he was my boyfriend at the time)... and it took him a good full day to calm down-he was mostly worried financially... but the next day, he went out and bought some baby shoes, and a Pregnancy for Dummies book- very good book!!! lol But yes, he was fine after that- but even better once I started showing and he felt the baby kick. Goodluck, and I hope he stays by your side.
2006-12-07 13:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on his feelings for you and whether he is a responsible young man. If he's in the army he sounds like a well adjusted man so as long as there's love their your relationship should be fine. As for the baby I'm sure he will love it. Good luck.
2006-12-07 14:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not really something that we can answer for you because we don't know anything about him or your relationship. Since he is in the military you will be able to get free medical care for your child through the Army, but he has to have his name on the birth certificate in order for this to happen.
2006-12-07 13:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no telling if he will stay until you tell him. if you keep this child and he leaves, your baby doesnt need a jerk in his life anyways. if he stays, the more power to him. you may tell him and find out that he is beyond happy about it. my fiance was mad at first, and now he wouldnt take our son back for anything. he loves his little baby.
2006-12-07 13:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on him if he is going to stay with you.. Some men run away from there responsibility however, some stick around and support...
2006-12-07 13:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already in basic training he has no way of getting out now, sorry he is committed.
2006-12-07 13:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋