I was seeing a guy for just under a month. We had decided not to see other people but were not yet at the boyfriend girlfriend stage. We had never even gone on a date, we just stayed in. Last weekend we went to the bar together with some friends. I got drunk to the point where i blacked out. One of his "friends" ended up driving me home, and we slept together. I didnt really know what was going on until after it was done. I told my man what had happened within 24hrs but unfortunately one of his buddies told him first. I feel horrible, i have applogised and asked for forgiveness. He says he forgives me but is not sure yet if he can give me another chance. He's hot and cold right now. We have talked everyday since, one day he'll act nice like we might get back together and the next day he'll be totally cold. I have never done anything like this before, and i dont know what to do at this point, i want to be with him so bad!!! Help!!
2006-12-07 13:00:08 · 4 answers · asked by applehotness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why didn't HE drive you home? Or go with you to make sure that you got home ok? That's irresponsible on his part, and not very kind. As for you--you really oughtn't drink to the point that you black out, as you are still accountable for your actions, no matter what. I completely understand his side of things, and if you want him back, you will have to be willing to wait. He may or may not decide to trust you anymore, and you will have to respect that.
2006-12-07 13:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got hurt of what had happened, and his friend has no shame that he took advantage of you. The guy is confused, so stay away,give him space until he realize if he really loves you or not.But for now his action doesn't tell that he has a strong feelings for you, also be careful next time, now that you know that you cannot handle yourself when your drunk..
2006-12-07 13:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, now that its common knowledge have his "friend" brought to court on rape charges and have your man testify that his friend admitted it.. at least his friend will be a sex offender and wont do it again. maybe the reason he's confused is cause your not doing anything about it, in your actions;basically saying it was ok.
2006-12-07 13:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is that if you give it time and dont push it maybe it will help. sorry thats not much
2006-12-07 13:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by swimgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋