Well I haven't had a bf for about 7 months now. Recently I have been getting asked out by guys that I could never have a relationship with. The first guy that asked me out is my friend's ex and he cheated on her. I couldn't deal with that. And then the next guy that asked me out is a guy I used to like in middle school. I never see him because he goes to a different high school and I only talk to him online. I like this other guy but he has a GF but he messes with me ALL the time.
My major question is....what in the world should I do?? Should I say yes to the guy I never see and what should I do about the guy that has a gf?
2006-12-07 12:59:22 · 10 answers · asked by ashv611 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask that dude, why do u hit on me when u have a girlfriend? he's probably trying to cheat on her like that one guy that asked you out did to your friend.....i say you take the guy who goes to a different highschool...at least you guys dont live on opposite sides of the world....plus you guys could meet places and go out, plus its better that he doesn't go to ur school so u can focus on school....just watch that he doesn't have a girlfriend at his other school...
2006-12-07 13:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as far as I can see none of those guys are the guys for you because first off the guy you never hardly see is out of the question because you never see him and you only talk to him online come now thats not a good relationship thats like having a long distance relationship which is no fun at all no girl ever wants to be in a relationship where they can never see their boyfriend trust me it's not good for you.oh and then there's the second guy you know the deal there never ever mess with a guy who already has a gf because it gets you no where it only ends up with two girls fighting over one man which there is no need for because their are plenty of other men out there if you ever saw cheaters you should know what I mean so if you don't want no baby mama drama I suggest you stay away from him and find yourself another man one you can see spend time with and is single.
2006-12-07 22:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the guy who has a gf alone, you don't want that situation on your platter if it ever comes down to the fact that she might find out right? About the guy who you'll hardly see say no. It is okay not to a have a bf right away this is your time to have to yourself and enjoy it remember there is always college and if you really don't want to wait that long for a bf then go up to that that you have a big crush on and say hi would yoo like to grab a bit to eat? I mean serisoulsy you'll only live life once and You won't have that oppertuntiy ever again just try it what is the worst thing that could happen? him saying no who cares get up dust yourself off and try again with someone else it is not the end of the world kid
2006-12-07 21:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by *em* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... I think you should keep talking to the guy iwith the GF(as long as its not a best friend of yours). I mean if you guys keep talking and stuff, then it will lead to going out together and then he might see that you are better than his actual Gf and he will want to get with you because he finds you more interesting or whatever the case may be than her.
2006-12-07 21:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. They all sound real lame. But I have to be honest with you, " If you attract lame men, you might need to check yourself." The energy you put out is what you usually get back. Maybe you should try a square guy and leave the players alone. Players end up with HIV and kids, Squares end up being Bill Gates.
2006-12-07 21:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lab 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. i say that as for right now, dont go out w/ any of them. You don't wanna be with someone who you never see and especially not while you like someone else. As far as the guy w/ a GF, i say you just talk to him about it. I'm sure he'll make his intentions perfectly clear to you.
2006-12-07 21:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only say yes to the one that you really think could work and if you never see that one, if he really likes you he will make time to see you
2006-12-07 21:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by whitchelle229 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you say yes only when you really like the guy BEFORE you go out with them?
2006-12-07 21:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Yamse1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush cause your going to regret it. don't say yes 2 the guy that has a girl friend ur gonna get in fights.
2006-12-07 21:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by cesar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girl and u know but he says he don't don't do it bcuz it might happen to u
2006-12-07 21:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by ?TOKIO HOTEL ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋