I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?
Thank you!
This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter
2006-12-07 12:50:07 · 14 answers · asked by Suny H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really does not matter what on-line site you met him on. You met this man on-line, he can tell you anything he wants, and he can act as though he is anyone he wants to be. You need to be sure that someone knows where you are planning on meeting him. Make sure it is a very public place. Do not allow him to come to your home or even give you a ride in his car. Unless you have no problem getting into a car with a stranger. This is so very dangerous. I would be sure to meet him in a public place and take a friend with me. Just to be safe. However, if you are planning on going alone, be sure that someone is aware of when, where you are to meet him a description of him, and what time you are expected back. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-07 12:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The internet can be a very dangerous place to meet people. However; if you use good sense you can meet good people, too. Please be sure if you meet him you use your own car and meet him at a place that is well lit and there are a lot of people around. Do not be with him alone. Do not get in his car for any reason, no matter how much you think he can be trusted. It's always better to be safe than sorry. That can come later when you know each other better and feel safer. Good Luck
2016-05-23 05:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure your first meeting is in a very public place. You can never be too careful. Many people may seem to be thing on line but be another in person. Make sure you let someone know where you plan on meeting and do NOT vary from that, have this person call your cell every hour to check in with you. As far a places to go.... a coffee house or a restaurant for the first date would be sufficient
2006-12-07 12:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underage, don't meet him at all. It could be a trick and he could be a lot older.
If you are an adult, talk on the phone first before you meet, so you can get an idea about his personality/social skills. You can't really know this from typing.
Before you meet, get his full name and his phone number. Write it down and leave it at your house along with where you are going. Tell a friend what you are doing.
Meet only in a public place and do not get in his car. If he creeps you out or lied about his identity, feel free to leave.
That is a safe guideline to online dating.
2006-12-07 13:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with a friend you trust. Or get a friend to call you 20 - 30 mins into the date. If you dont like this person you can tell them that your best friend has just called and there is a big emergency you need to attend to straight away. If you do like them you can say that you are with a really nice guy and let him hear it. It will make the rest of the night more comfortable as he will have more confidience with you. Best of luck
2006-12-07 12:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by TRTH-HNTR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you don't do this, but if you're determined to meet this guy please do so in a very public place and take a couple of friends with you. Never offer any very personal information or details about yourself until you get to know this person very well and please pursue this matter slowly and with extreme caution. I am not trying to frighten you but the world is full of dangerous people who appear to be normal. Again, I prefer that you NOT do this!
2006-12-07 12:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be aware and be carefull because in some cases the person you are talking too isn't quite the person it ends up turning out to be face to face!! If all goes well enjoy yourself and do something fun!! Good luck!!
2006-12-07 12:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by pqr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... I probably wouldn't meet some random guy off the internet. This is a Dateline NBC story waiting to happen!
2006-12-07 12:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by facetious5488 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a potentaily very dangerous situation, please do not go alone, bring a friend, one who not ditch out on you no matter what.
Do not go home with him and do not bring him home get to know him first. Your life could be on the line.
2006-12-07 12:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did you state the fact that he's African American? does it make a difference? and i don't care that you met on an interracial dating site. what kind of reaction are you looking for?
2006-12-07 12:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by lululu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋