I had a boyfriend and I liked another boy just as much and I wanted both of them yet I knew I couldn't have them. My current boyfriend wasn't acting much like a boyfriend and was ignoring me a lot yet the boy I liked acted like a real boyfriend should and I just felt comfortable with both of them but I'm not sure which one 1 should choose and everyone is saying go with the other boy and not my boyfriend yet I love him and my other friend. What shoud I do?
2006-12-07 12:48:51 · 5 answers · asked by xBobxThexPiratex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now why in the world did you get yourself in this kind of a mess? I think the thing for you to do is first of all sit down and talk with your current boyfriend and let him know how you feel with him not spending much time with you and giving you the attention you desire. If he can't work on it and you can't fall at the top of his list then move on. Mean while stop playing with your friends heart because you and your boyfriend may make it but you could have a really hurt frind if you don't leave your boyfriend. Hope that helps alittle
2006-12-07 12:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..you gotta be having doubts with at least one of them..but for some reason you still want to hold on to that person. Maybe you should ask your *current* boyfriend if he is feeling kinda distant with you..like ask him if your guys's relationship feels right? Maybe his feelings will help you make your decision. <3 Goodluck..hey i know matters of the heart aren't easy!!
2006-12-07 12:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the boyfriend and get with the other friend. If you were really in love with the boyfriend, you would not have this problem.
2006-12-07 18:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the guy that makes me smile. whichever one that DOESNT stress me out. Make the choice you wont regreat; if it's a mistake, the guys that really love you might take you back.
2006-12-08 08:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to think about this as being YOUR problem. you have two guys here, one who will treat you the way you want, and one who you love for no apparent reasons. if you want to be treated right, go with the other guy. one of my girlfriends left her bf for me. he didnt call her or hang out with her, and i called her every single night. its what you want, and how you want to be treated.
good luck
2006-12-07 12:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋