i am a college student and i really would want to concentrate on my studies but i just would want to know if i could really balance it with having a relationship... or should i really choose one over the other?
2006-12-07 12:43:59 · 8 answers · asked by seebee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that u could easily balance them. i do and im fine.
2006-12-07 12:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know too many guys who are good at multi-tasking, but you could be the exception. I think the most important thing to remember is that you both have to make time for each other and keep your promises. If possible, I would set a designated time/day to go out and spend time together, if possible, let this always be your day. Women can deal with a schedule and a guy who's trying, but can't really tolerate someone who just doesn't care. The fact that you even ask yourself this question means you at least care. I'd date you for that.
2006-12-07 20:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by volkgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never could either----that is, could not have a successful grade point average AND a successful relationship. Basically studying is important--there's time for a lovelife after graduation, when you're driving your shiny red sports car that you bought with real money from your first real job that you got because you are SMART because you paid attention, studied and got good grades in college.
2006-12-07 20:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in that situation. But I was the one dating the person who wanted to concentrate on his stuides. There's nothing wrong with wanting to concentrate on your studies, but it was really hard for me to be in that relationship because I was always second. I understood but it was really hard. At the same time, the guy I was dating felt really gulity about putting school before me. So I would say, as for now concentrate on your studies. If you try both nothing good will come out of it like my situation. best of luck to you. Oh, and just so you know, me and him are still really good friends. So if it was meant to be, it'll happen...don't worry too much about it.
2006-12-07 20:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best to choose your studies. When you're educated, you CAN take it with you. I would always choose college (and everything before and after) over relationships. I would consider having a FwB, if that's what you're comfortable with.
2006-12-07 23:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date a hot smart chick
2006-12-07 20:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by kingjoey66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just don't let your girlfriends crap get in the way of your studies.
dont commit to take her somewhere in advance
dont commit to be somewhere in advance
and you should be just fine
2006-12-07 20:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Slappin 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I never could.
2006-12-07 20:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋