Ok i know i'm only nine but theres this girl,Bethany in my class and she is going after MY crush,Chris and she knows i like him. So i was like, sike today and she totally chose him for TANGO partner in gym! DO YOU KNOW HOW CLOSE YOU'VE GOT TO GET TO YOUR PARTNER IN THE TANGO? My friend called me and told me the 411, and I'm kind of afraid that Chris likes Bethany Too! What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME NOT MISS PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 12:43:59 · 29 answers · asked by ToOnToWn*=^._.^=*KiTtYcAt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm Not Nine I'm In my little sisters account she told me to ask you guys that question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!DUH!
2006-12-07 12:57:30 · update #1
You're still in elementary school. Not that big of a deal, relationships at your age are mainly just friendships... I wouldn't worry about it until your 12 or 13, that is when you start to go on dates and things of that sort.
2006-12-07 12:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you are NINE YEARS OLD. This whole thing is pretty ridiculous. Couldn't you just tell the teacher on her or something..? Whatever. I'll help you anyway, cause I'm just a good person like that. :D
Ok.. first of all, just because Bethany chose your crush for a dance partner does not mean by any stretch of the imagination that HE has a crush on HER.
But just in case, when you get back to school, flirt with him a bit more and walk with him whenever you get the chance. If your class is dancing again, then ask him to be partners with you beforehand, not right when the dance is about to start.
Basically, just show him that you're a cute, smart, fun-loving girl that cares for him. It's not that hard!
Good luck!
2006-12-07 20:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by kylie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break this to you, but YOU ARE NINE YEARS OLD!!! I have yet to know one person that met the person then eventually married at 9 years old, or 10, or 11, or so on until they were at least 16.
How about this, just chill out. I know it may not feel like it, but this is not the end of the world. You will have other crushes, will have many boyfriends, and if it's meant to be, then you two will eventually get together when the time is right.
2006-12-07 20:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are young and probably a very beautiful young lady don't let boys infect your mind right now concentrate on being a kid and things will happen when they are supposed to. If this boy likes you then he will let you know but remember boys at your age pick on you and are mean to you to show their affection. If he doesn't and he picks the other girl then chances are it won't last long because you are all too young to be worrying about relationships now anyway, and trust me honey it will be his loss if he chooses the other girl and not you. You will find someone who will like you for you when you are old enough.
2006-12-07 20:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know being young, you can get wrapped up in emotions....but I'm 14...and learned a bit in my time. As for guys...you have to have them like you and you like them back. You can ask him out if you have the nerve...I sort of suggest it if you want to find out if he truely likes you! But if he doesn't, it could lead to you being sad (even a bit depressed). Um, but just take the whole ordeal slow and don't panic....you're young and have time to make mistakes. And the guys who are nine don't really have any true qualites (none that I've ever known)! So good luck and happy hollidays!
2006-12-07 20:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sissy S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take him behind the slide and make out with him wait ur only nine you should not even like guys now butt since you do just be urself!!
2006-12-07 20:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm... im not a girl, but obsession! And, your nine your not even allowed to make a yahoo account until 13! You still have lots of years until you get 'real' relationships, not crushes. You can start rumors, etc. Pretty immature, but i bet it wold work for u.
2006-12-07 20:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by zacharydai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him. I know you are only nine, but ask him to go hang out some time or something just don't loose your cool.
2006-12-07 20:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by luvergirl79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! lol* i remember when i was nine. haha the good years..anyway..well become friends with him...talk to him...find out what he likes...if you become friends with him first chances are..in the end..you'll remain close. But still you gotta remember boys come and go...esp. when your only nine <3 goodluck sweetie*
2006-12-07 20:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, you're nine! Boys will come and go, don't let it stress you out! A better one will always come along later.
2006-12-07 20:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by lvminole 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋