How does one fall in love, I've tried but in vain. What can I do or not do to fall in love?

Answer 1

The reason they say "fall" in love is because you can't plan it. Do you plan to fall down? It's kinda the same concept. Falling in love will happen when the right situation comes along. Don't push it....that's the one thing that you CANNOT do...it will not be beneficial to you or whoever you're with. Do remain open to new possibilities, do enjoy the time that you are with a person, admire them for who they are...and someday, when you are ready--you will find yourself in love.

Good luck!

Answer 2

The only thing you can do to help yourself fall in love is find the one you are meant to be with. When you find her, it will just happen. In the mean time get out and make friends, don't rush anything and most of all keep your eyes open. The one for you might be someone you pass every day.

"Somebody" by Reba

At a diner down on Broadway they make small talk
When she brings his eggs and fills his coffee cup
He jokes about his love life
And tells her he's 'bout ready to give up
That's when she says,"I've been there before
Keep on lookin'
'Cause maybe who you're lookin' for is..."

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there is somebody

Across town in a crowded elevator
He can't forget the things that waitress said
He usually reads the paper
But today he reads a stranger's face instead
It's that blue-eyed girl
From two floors up
Maybe she's the one
Maybe he could fall in love with

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there
Is somebody

Now they laugh about the moment that it happened
A moment they'd both missed until that day
When he saw his future in her eyes
Instead of just another friendly face
And he wonders why
He searched so long
When she was always there at that diner waiting on

Somebody in the next car
Somebody on the morning train
Somebody in the coffee shop
That you walk right by everyday
Somebody that you look at
But never really see
Somewhere out there
Oh somewhere out there is somebody

Answer 3

Falling in love is not something that you practice or have instructions for. You will know when it happens. The right time, right place, definitely the right person. You just know, and once you do fall in love, you will never want anything less than this.

Answer 4

Love is an affliction. It attacks you whether you want it to or not. It is usually against your will because you will suddenly realize just what life and heart jeopardy you have been struck with like a bolt of lightening. Otherwise, it is not love but perhaps infatuation.

Answer 5

Love isn't something you *do*, but something you feel.

There's a LOT of emotions and things that lead to that "falling in love" feeling... but my guess is, if you don't trust your partner, then you can't allow yourself to become emotionally attached. You have to allow your heart to become vulnerable, and trust that the person you are giving it to will protect it and honor it.

Answer 6

I don't think there's any "try" about it. You can't try to fall in love. It just won't happen that way. But I guess you can always try to be more succeptible to falling in love. One way...open your heart. That's pretty hard to do. These days...you have to remain on-guard or you might be used in bad ways.

Answer 7

well love is something you cannot force. you cannnot make yourself love someone it just happens. so stop thinking about it so hard and just live your life. it will happen when the right person comes along

Answer 8

It's a myth. Learn to love others, but don't look for it, yourself.

Answer 9

Nothing. You just haven't met the right one.

Answer 10

Simple. Meet the right one. Then you can't help it!