Nobody ,,,,that I have met so far.. . Is genuine. alot of the other sex is just looking for material things. And frankly it's very unsettling to see that.( or either looking for only one thing) whatever.... there is more to life. Live A Little U Might Find True Love-----------Be Yourself.
2006-12-07 12:40:54 · 22 answers · asked by windystorm4luv 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
been there and done that, and I have found true love. married for 38 years. to the same woman.
2006-12-07 12:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah's Grandpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, we are dimishing in numbers, but we are still there. The nice part is all on the inside, so you can't do what most women do and only make the effort to get to know someone if they are physically attracted to the guy first. The more extras you throw in (can't be shorter than me, can't be overweight, must have a great income, etc) make it just that much harder, because those factors have nothing to do with being nice.
Nice guys are sensitive, and used to being rejected (outright dismissals, or "just a friend") so they will tend to be shy and not be the one to outright show you their interest. They can just be worshiping you from afar, or actually have befriended you. Don't get hung up on "the guy has to be the one to express interest", be proactive.
2006-12-07 12:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cruel Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NICE GUYS TO BE FOUND
2006-12-07 15:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Flame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are only looking for sex an girls are only looking for guys that are not just looking for sex unless they are not interested in it then the gals want nothing to do with them because there must be something wrong with them, hehe hoho to the funny farm where life is beautiful,I like that song I think Madona does girls just wana have fun, well I think everyone tends to make way to much of a big deal out of any situation they find themselves in. Like if it is someone else that lost there keys it's no biggie they will find them right? but what if you loose your keys? I love yahoo answers it has to be one of the best ideas ever
2006-12-08 02:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by chris77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically the nice guys are the ones you overlook. They are not trying to make a spectical of themselves or show off. Would you even be attracted to a "nice guy". Many women are not attracted to the nice ones off the bat. Give every guy a chance to be himself. The truth is when you find someone you truly love you will think they are nicest guy in the world. Even if others might not. You will be blind to many faults he may have. You though will see his true self. He will be nice and true to you because its natural.
2006-12-07 13:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Martin S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are out there far and few but there definitely around. I came across one we have been together 4 years but hey I had to go through a hell of a lot of bad apples. You name it I have met them. From materialistic right down to the chauvinistic pig. But I finally came across one and he wasn't even someone I would honestly give a second thought to...(we won't let him know that)...but he grew on me and I fell in love with him because he treated me like his queen....Don't worry you will find him....continue the search and yes above all else be yourself!
2006-12-07 12:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. Most of the lesbo's I liked are jerks, too.
There are really a lot of nice guys out there. They just don't all have perfect bodies, snazzy cars, or a 50k or more yearly income. There are alot of good ones at church. There are some baddies in church, too.
Be well.
2006-12-07 12:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A few generations ago, men HAD to be truly polite and respectful to women in public, at least . Then as now, things were sometimes different in public. Men had jobs to do, women had jobs.
The world has changed. Right now we are seeing an epidemic of male bashing. LOTS of the women love it, loving that they can "get away with it" do it because "I can", etc.
So as a natural side-effect you are seeing men no longer going out of their way to treat women as special as they did before. Another side effect is that many women are getting meaner, and meaner and ruder and ruder. Perhaps "because they can get away with it", perhaps the new roles which they are attempting to take in society are putting added stress on their lives and they have not learned to deal with the reality of all of this.
In any case, times are changing; be careful for what you wish, you may get it.
2006-12-07 13:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well I can only assume you are quite young and certainly a little naiave.
Seriously though, wasn't it Madonna who sang 'material girl' ? That, I believe, is the true problem. The nice guys have ran away coz all the women are toooooooo materialistic.
2006-12-07 12:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by asilad 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As there is no such thing as polite society anymore we gentleman have taken to our caves and hobbit holes where we await the Apocalypse and the eventual return of manners and common sense.
2006-12-08 02:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the person that you will fall in love with is the person you least suspect it. i mean you might pick the "cute guy" or the muscle guys... they are usually jerks well the "cute guys" are less jerks then the muscle guys. maybe look at the so called outcasts. i mean who knows you might like those guys for who they are instead of what they look like...
2006-12-07 15:59:09 · answer #11 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋