Being single since my failure of business couple months ago, no friend or buddy since. Learning a new trade and all the time home in front of computer. Never expect a nice, pleasant looking guy, 36 year old had really lost and nothing with in the mid life but armed with only experience & knowledge. It time to have a nice girl to pursue our dream together. I Had A Big Problem!!! I had nothing but I always had high expectation or standard and had no clue where to find it or head on and I don't go out anymore. Anyone, please hit me with the right words, logically. THANK YOU!!!
2006-12-07 12:39:41 · 3 answers · asked by blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm you might be experiencing midlife crisis. Lol the other thing could be you're just not making yourself availible. How do you plan on people coming to you if you just sit around. I told one of my friend how i am shy when it comes to meeting people but i do expect the right person to come a long and sweep me off my feet. Well how's that gonna happen unless you go out. On top of that, you're a guy and you're the one who to make the first move.
Oh... there's nothing wrong with having standards. Just don't set them so high. If you're all about physical beauty then i would suggest toning that down because if you're looking for someone to spend your life with, you want someone sweet, compassionate and outgoing. Well it all depends on who you are. Just make sure you find someone that will love you for you. Sounds cliche but that's what you need to really look for. And i am sure you don't just want a "nice girl". If that's the case, just live with your mother. You probably want someone whom you can be yourself around, someone whom you can feel at ease with and someone who brings out the best in you.
My suggestions is if you have no friends... go out to like cafe and make small conversation. Maybe luck might come your way. Goodluck.
2006-12-07 12:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your post wasn't very clear, but it appears you want a girlfriend. Be patient...when you are least expecting it, someone will cross your path.
2016-05-23 05:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can meet a girl and get married someday you just haven't met her yet.....you will if you are patient.
2006-12-07 12:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋