A friend of mine broke up w/her boyfriend 3 weeks ago. She has been distraught for the past week and thinking she's psycho. It finally hit her that she really does love him and how she may have messed up just as much as he. She knows that stalking isn't right, but she wants to talk to him. She has called and sent emails and no responses. She cries all the time. Any ideas?? I am running out.
And, no, it's not me. I broke up w/my bf 3 months ago.
2006-12-07 11:52:10 · 10 answers · asked by Vanity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a hard thing to go through but all you can do is just be there for her i know that she may want your advice but really she feels what she feels and there is not really anythink that you can do, she will get over soon coz by the looks of it the boyfriend has either left the relationship for good or maybe hes taking time out and he too may feel the same way as your friend 1 day, but just at the moment she is just going to have to accept that he doesnt want to talk just yet and maybe try later on and see if she still feels this way. But it still up to him whether or not he wants to take her back. And stalking isnt just right its actually quite hateful. It will only just make him think that she is psycho.
well i wish you both luck.
2006-12-07 11:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay umm well maybe you should try to take her mind off of him and she needs to realize that hes moved and she has to too.
It will be hard for awhile all she will talk about is him and how she loved him and now she hates him but she will move on.
try to take her out and let guys notice her.
& if that doesnt work tell her she needs to talk to him and some how find a way where you guys could find him or go to his house and ask
him to take a walk with her. Im trying my best but i dont knw her so sorry if this didnt help
2006-12-07 20:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she needs to realize is that the guy isnt for her. no matter how hard it is to admit or accept, he isnt for her. she needs to go through a process of depression and then come to realize that she needs to let him go and get on with life. one way to get over him is to find out all the bad things about him, its not a solution where she is going to forget all about him and stop hurting inside, but it does really help a lot. i have been in this situation before and it worked for me, and i think and hope it will help her too, and i know how much it really hurts when a person like another person, but cant be with them because of something, so i really do understand what shes going throught.
2006-12-07 20:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by michelleblessu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she broke up with him and that she just needs to move on he will talk to her again when he is ready till then go shopping with her or watch movies or hook her up with someone new
2006-12-07 19:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by baby girl 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend went through the same thing. 7 months later, they've only had ONE full conversation b/c he won't talk to her. so, all i can suggest is just be w/ her & she'll eventually calm down.
2006-12-07 19:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by vballprep22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her go up to face and talk! Do it before you become physco
2006-12-07 20:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a friend, go to the movies or bowling, have her oer somtime.... only she can really help herself, but you can support her and make the recovery faster.
2006-12-07 19:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Poptart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try and take your friend out. have fun...fun...fun! keeping her mind off of him is the best things to do right now!
2006-12-07 19:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him i mean u and telling him how she feels what this is duing to her everyone messes up
2006-12-07 19:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dude will respond when he is good and ready to and not before.
2006-12-07 19:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋