2006-12-07 11:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by babi_cici85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
been together for 10mths
2006-12-07 12:00:46 · update #1
Ask him if he wants to stay with you or find someone he can trust.
Hopefully he'll know whats right.
Fighting over nothing is a sad waste of time
Treasure every moment that you have...
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
That's why it's called the present.
2006-12-07 11:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on a lot of things. How long have you been together? Do you have other ties (children, etc)? Would your life be, thinking reasonably objectively, better or worse without him? Also I kind of think if you have to ask the question, you already know the answer. Since this is on "Engagements and Weddings", are you engaged or married? Obviously if you're married it makes things a lot harder. Was he always the jealous type? Sorry for all the questions, I'm meant to be answering YOU :-). I have had other relationships before my husband, where the guy has been the "jealous type" and I feel it put a LOT of stress on me and the relationship. I constantly felt I was tiptoeing all the time. I loved him but at the end it was too hard. I am married now and I made sure the person I ended up with wasnt the jealous type, but still trustworthy. Believe it or not there is a happy medium. Anyway I probably didnt help you a lot, but if its really stressing you out and the relationship isnt worth salvaging, maybe it is time to call it a day. But also, if there is a chance you can work together, and change things together, then that's obviously the better option. Ultimately it takes two... so communication is the key... without fighting if possible :)
2006-12-07 11:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jodes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have been there and done that I don't know how long you two have been together but if it's that bad where your fighting all the time I would walk away because it will only get worse. If you like you are welcome to email me with more details and I will be happy to talk to you. Men come and go all the time so if he's treating you like this and you are unhappy leave him.
2006-12-07 11:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by sedisticvixen25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left, and have a restraining other to prove it. I just got worse and worse. And I couldn't live in this world of worry and guilt and anger. Talk to him. Remind him that thing can't stay this way. Be VERY careful if you decide to leave. Jealousy can change a sweet man into a very brutal man.
2006-12-07 11:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree - you need to leave. I was once with a man like this and the problem only gets worse - believe me.
2006-12-07 13:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Men who are constantly jealous have serious problems that really don't have anything to do with jealousy. Unless he is willing to get serious help, I wouldn't stay.
2006-12-07 11:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is best to leave. he sounds very insecure when it comes to the opposite sex and its not going to get any better, unless he is willing to go for councilling as to why he is acting/behaving this way.
soon he may be fighting you , which could get alot worse than it already is.
2006-12-07 11:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave him. my fiance was very jealous before as i only have guy friends. but try to make him understand. let him meet your friends, go dinner together. go hang out together. let him see that there is nothing there. or is there?
2006-12-07 21:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by watevergal20s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it matter? if you leave, you'll just end up with some other jealous guy.
2006-12-07 11:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Firstd1mension 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if that is something your willing to put up with as long as your together?
2006-12-07 11:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by gooplic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋