boss her arround and get mad at her for having a boyfriend and tells her im not talking to you untill you stop my best friend completly ignors me. i tell her if she doesnt let you be you you dont need her but she tells me but i want her as my friend. Is that OK???
2006-12-07 11:38:53 · 16 answers · asked by Killer k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO IT IS NOT OK ! !
your best friends sounds super immature, they are really possessive, and in this case can be a bad thing..
explain to her that your not LEAVING her as a friend or anything, and the guy is not taking your place, but YES I an splitting our time together, and that is all part of life, part of growing UP!..it will happen to her one day and then will you get mad at her, I don't think you will...if you and her ARE best friends like you say, you should be able to sit down and talk to her calmly and nicely. about this SMALL problem..it does not happen to everyone...but a lot of friends go through this even guys.....but some understand....just be nice and talk to her..plus tell her that from now on.if it is not THIS guy it will be another nice guy that will be your boyfriend
good luck
smile
2006-12-08 00:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not ok. Your "friend" doesn't treat you with respect....she treats you as a peasant in the feudal system. Don't be the subject of her insecurities and dysfunctions. You deserve so much more than that. She's taking her psychological dysfunctions out on you....these dysfunctions could stem from her childhood or her home life. Don't let yourself fall victim to her abuse.
2006-12-07 19:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by MissKate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person stops someone from having friends outside the relationship then they are controlling and a definate sign that the person should get out of the relationship.
2006-12-07 19:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a healthy relationship at all. She's jealous because someone has a boyfriend. Can't really understand what you are saying, but I think that's a good answer.
2006-12-07 19:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thsi is immature and i'm 13 and don't do this but i would say if this is what ur trying to tel me is ur frends just jealous cuz u have a b/f and she doesn't.trust me i've been jealous.and yeah try to get her a b/f if she keeps being mean to u.hope this helped
2006-12-07 19:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend sure has a weird way of showing her whatevrr...friendship,sometimes their jealous and u cant help it,
she/whoevrr needs to learn to treat her frends better ... or shes gonna end up lonely and alone!!
2006-12-07 19:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by MickeyW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous, they probably spent so much time together, your friend feel's she's being replaced!?
Who cares, if she's not bossing you around then thats good
2006-12-07 19:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best friend's friend? I guess that is too distant a relationship to even bother. You should just focus on your relationship with your best friend. If she were to interfere your relationship with your friend, would you like it?
2006-12-07 19:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Erm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why is she so mad becuase she has a BF or what , but i think no it is not okay cuz if she waz her friend she would be happy she had a BF and not mad!!!
2006-12-07 19:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by toomuchdrama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this is someone that you don't need in your life, why don't you tell her to get lost. tell her to take her buggy and Dolly's and go home
2006-12-07 19:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋