My friend Dora has a boyfriend-almost fiancee/future husband, she tells me that he talks to her about he wants to hug/kiss and he tried to talk about the S** to her and she thinks this stuff is on his mind a lot. They only talk as they have a long distant relationship, but why does he talk like this to her always? Is this just men's nature to think of love and romance or does he talk this way because he is crazy in love with her, which he seems to prove in his actions towards her as he will do anything to make her happy?Dora feels uncomfortable when he talks this way to her cuz shes not used to it from no one, but any advice for her plz?
2006-12-07 11:28:18 · 6 answers · asked by dreamz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they have been together for a little more than 2 years
2006-12-07 11:35:48 · update #1
Well, as a woman expaects a man to please her in sexual ways once the relationship reaches that, she too should try to please him, even if it means trying things that are uncomfortable at first. However, if she feels it is too soon, then she should ask to be understanding and to wait awhile longer before trying this. As far as is it love or talk? It could be both. He may be in love with her and her words, but obviously want more than just words. Or he may think he is in love and will feel differently once he has gotten what he wants. My advice is to go with it, cautiously, but open mindedly.
Jonesy
2006-12-07 11:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jonesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So...he wants to talk about sex? That is not unusual for men. That's about all they think about. If he's laying the love talk down on her like that, and she's getting weirded out, then my guess is that he's insecure and needy and possibly infatuated (but probably not in love).
2006-12-07 19:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can this he be an "almost fiancee/future husband" when all they do is talk cause it's a long distance relationship?
2006-12-07 19:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by mama dee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look, guys are wied and most - prob 90% - are a lil perverted so u gotta understand his pov
2006-12-07 19:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by goaliekd755 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how long have they been together first?
also yeah if she in uncomfortable she needs to tell him that!!
2006-12-07 19:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Nikki*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe consoling himself while talking to her about all that. men needs releases all the time....
2006-12-07 19:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋