I'm 15 and have been wondering if it's time yet. I love my bf and he keeps telling me it's time. We're both virgin, so I'm not sure. What should I do???
2006-12-07 11:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The age when you are married.
You don't want to feel like you're being used. Wait till you know he REALLY loves you... and if he does, he'll wait. Sex is for marriage.
2006-12-07 11:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex involves a lot more than an act. You need to be ready for the worst case scenario to happen and it does sometimes. Sex can change the course of your life at your age for the worst. Why waste such a young age on something that involves proper consideration way beyond your years? Give yourself time to mature first. You have not lived long enough, and letting culture form negative and permissive images in your life is treacherous. For one thing, this guy may seem like he is the one. Actually, he is probably the one, RIGHT NOW! Do you really want to go through the rest of your school years passing him in the hall or watching him with someone else when you are the one who gave him the first of yourself? That happens everyday! Make your choices but please consider the probabilities!
2006-12-07 19:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much about wrether it's the right age, it's about the situation that your in at the moment, ask yourslef, am I in a postion that if i get pregnant I would be able to provide for my baby, if I do get pregnant will it interfer with my studies, and if I don't get pregnant what if I get an STD, sex is very good and also alot of fun but you must first realize the concequences of sex. But i'm just here to give you insight it wouldn't be fair if you didn't make your own disigion anyways good luck finding your answer.
2006-12-07 19:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to raise a child together if you happen to get pregnant? Remember that you can be really really careful and theres still that slight chance you might get pregnant. You don't want to end up doing something you'll regret because you'll jsut hate yourself and your boyfriend for it if you regret it. Also, waiting for marriage is never a bad idea. Many people say that they regret not waiting to have sex. But have you ever heard someone say they regretted waiting to have sex?
2006-12-07 19:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by dancerkatarzyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say wait until your at least 18 when it legal. Although if bothyour parents say its ok its legal too.
Though my personal opinion is that you bf may be presuring you to much. If you want to wait, then wait. Having sex to early in a relationship can destory it.
2006-12-07 19:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do it yet. what until you are at least 18. because i did it at that age and my bf said the same thing. and when we did it. he dumped me after a couple of weeks. wait.
2006-12-07 19:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. I had sex way too young and still regret it and I am almost 40 now. Take things slow. If you love each other, wait!!!
2006-12-07 19:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tami C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're even asking this question, it's NOT time. trust me. don't let your boyfriend make you think it's time if you don't feel it. Even if he threatens to break up with you, he is a jerk for not understanding that you're not ready.
i was in your shoes at the same age and if i could change the decision i made, i would. don't do something you're going to regret. learn from my mistake, please???...
good luck!
2006-12-07 19:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him pressure you into having sex. Obviously your not ready cause your asking us. What if you get pregnant or what if you get some kind of disease. You'll regret it after. Just wait.
2006-12-07 19:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get started until i was 18.....but i'd say about 14-15 is fair enough.
2006-12-07 19:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋