for 10 points guys (or girls) please i need help so i will give you best answer if u give good advice?

Question

the guy i like in my school found out i like him. he apparently likes me a little and people are trying to get him to ask me out, even though i told them. although this sounds weird i have never even really talked to him much, so i dont know how i would confront him. i definately dont have the courage let alone the confidence to ask him out myself. he is fairly shy. any sugggestions? anything will help. and no im not giving up on him. i really like him and if i have a chance i would like to take it. help?

Answer 1

try this............ Will you go out with me (please circle)
Yes No

in a note of course....that way it's not a face to face akward thing

Answer 2

Well first off ,,,The situation between you and him is no ones business ,,,, nor should they try to intervene regardless of their intentions ,,,, This is your affair no one elses ,,,,Secondly ,,,, It's not proper etiquette for a girl to ask a guy out ,,,, But there's nothing that says it's wrong for a girl to go up to him ,,,, say like at school ,,,, and start a conversation with him ,,,, That can't necessarily be seen as being forward or bold ,,,, You said he is shy ,,,, Well ,,,, Simply going up to him to talk just might be the thing to do to sort of like maybe break the ice so to speak and enable him to respond ,,,, if he does seem a little tense or on edge then appologise to him by saying that you don't mean to put him on edge or make him feel uncomfortable and that you'll just leave if your being there bothers him ,,,, See how he will respond ,,,, Usually ,,,,, When a guy is on edge or shy with a girl and he is given the option to be left alone they won't take it ,,,, If he does like you then he's not going to want you to go but just hasn't got the nerve to say so ,,,, That being the case ,,,, then just let nature take it's course and go from there ,,,, You said you have a problem with being shy yourself but that's something only you can deal with ,,,, If you could figure out some question to ask him to start off with then it shouldn't be too hard to just open the conversation that way ,,,, All either of you have to do is simply begin ,,,, Things can progress from that point ,,,, You don't have anything to loose by trying ,,,,He can't kill you or even make you bleed and you just might wind up with a positive or desirable situation ,,,, Give it a try and good luck ,,,

Answer 3

you seem to be at the point in your life when writting notes to one another is frequent.
write him a note ask him to go out with you . let him know date time place activity that this will involve . i dont mean sex i mean if you have it in your head to go some place for a swim then let him know .
include in the note that you need him to let you know if he accepts your request or not .
i know that its all the rage to let your friends in on every detail of a date or crush but i would leave this one out of the gossip circle.
i hope you have fun on your date .
oh dont plan anything to expense this thing could just be coming over to your house to watch a movie or it could be swimming
what ever you pick consider will this activity be enough that even if we dont talk to each other much we can still be ocupied with the activity and end up both finding that it was ok .
casual fun relaxing friendly cheap sort of activities are best .
once you have been alone with him talk will start to come easier
for both of you and after this date and a few more dates will not be as big a deal as they seem to be right now.
again i stress keep the details you know what i mean out of the gossip circles. if anyone presses you just say we get along together were friends he is my boyfriend and that is all i will tell you if you want to know more go get a boyfriend yourself and see what happens on dates.

Answer 4

The only way your ever going to be with him is if your get a little confidence. You only live once. Then worst he could say is no and chances are he wont so just go for it and If your still in school and if he does say no, so what, he'll forget about it and so will everyone else when the next drama day (which will be tomorrow) happens. I use to be the same way but if you never take chances your will never live.

Answer 5

Well if you both dont really know one another thats the first step! get to know one another. dont rush into a relationship, take it slow- progress. if you want to ask him somewhere without officially asking him out, suggest going to starbucks and just talking maybe get something good to drink there, grab some lunch sometime, Do something simple and easy that will give yall time to talk and get to know one another. the best relationships are those that are not rushed. Also, dont let friends and other peers pressure yall into hooking up that will just tear you away from one another! I hope this has helped...its not the 10 points im after, i have been in your position before and i know what its like! Good luck sweetie!

Answer 6

Oh, I do feel for you ! He is probably thinking exactly what you are too ! Try arranging to be with your friends and show up where he is gonna be; that way you are in the same place at the same time, and that's a start!
Then you can say something casual to him, smile at him, and it won't feel so awkward, cause you will be in a group . Or find out if he he belongs to any kind of clubs or after-school activities, join them, and you'll also get to be around him. Good Luck and I hope love wins out ! :)

Answer 7

Don't do anything!!!!! YOU ARE THE GIRL! He KNOWS you have a crush right?? So let HIM make the first move. If he likes you, he will. If he DOESN'T like you, then you just feel really weird if you ask him out. If he had no idea you had a little crush I would say embrace your independence and ask him out...but since he knows you like him, the ball is in HIS COURT. It sounds like you are in high school... trust me, there are sooo many other guys you will go out with so if he doesn't like you, someone better will.

Answer 8

THEN GO FOR IT!!! COME ON!!! HE LIKES YOU! YOU LIKE HIM! GO UP TO HIM!!! eheh... j/k j/k.. i know how it is to be in that situation... I've been in the same exact place for a while until my b/f asked me out.. LOL... really.. if he doesn't make the first move.. you go for it... gently say hi to him ever single day. I mean, a gentle "hi" wont hurt anyone especially if you and him like each other.... butta yeah, don't let time pass you by though. I mean, you don't want to say hi to him only... eheh... try saying hi for a week, then how are you doing... then phone numbers, emails, or whatnot...and start a conversation!! Butta yeah, notes are kinda romantic-ish....even though it's still childish and all, but if you think about it... if you can't talk.. might as well write! eheh... and obviously if he likes you too... YAY! GO FOR IT! =]

Answer 9

First act calm and cool... Don't show to much intrest specially if he is shy. If you have mutual friends maybe you guys should go to the mall or a movie or even hang out side.. You never know you said you haven't talked to him very much.. He could be a total dork... Talk and see if you even like him like that.. Good Luck Sweetie :)

Answer 10

you both are punks. but that's okay. find out his email address from a homeboy and write to him. tell him how you feel. for some people it's easier to write than to say what's really good. or you could get someone to discreetly slip him your number. if you do that he has the option at moving the way he really wants to. if he wants you he'll holla. but you should think about boosting up you confidence level because it's the sexiest thing a woman can have real talk.

Answer 11

Honestly, just leave it alone. It's already a public matter know, everybody knows your situation now, so if you ask him out or even confront him, people are going to be watching a close eye to see if you get rejected, and if you do...it will be embarrassing, because everybody will be talking about it. And I know you don't want to be known as the "girl who got rejected". Don't worry, if this guy really likes you, he will ask you out, and if not, there will be plenty more guys out there...trust me. Good luck.